2006-11-11 06:18:01 · 16 answers · asked by nervous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I don't think its silly at all, I'm 22 and still waiting. I'm doing it cause its the right thing, plus I see how sex messes up a lot of things. Waiting just makes since.
2006-11-11 06:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Laurel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT SILLY! If you are 18 and still a virgin and at University, there will be MANY MORE PEOPLE INTERESTED IN YOU! Especially it is the BEST TO WAIT UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED (that way you know you have saved yourself for the best person in the world, YOUR MATE).
Do not give your sexual love away to just anybody. Make it worth something by WAITING.
I had a friend who slept with MANY girls in his life. He once MET THE GIRL of his dreams and, of course, wanted to sleep with her. She said NO! So, that made him want her even MORE. Well, to make a LONG story short. He would have TRADED ALL OF THOSE SEXUAL EXPERIENCES to be with this girl of his dreams, because SHE WAS WAITING FOR MARRIAGE TO HAVE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. She is happily married today, he, unfortunately is NOT. It is worth the wait! YOU CAN DO IT!
2006-11-11 06:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by SmartAlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it is not silly. You will be very proud of yourself to be able to say you were a virgin and if you remain a virgin until you marry that would be reason to celebrate. Most teens feel that it is not something that they need to achieve, but let me tell you from experience, if you achieve remanding a virgin it is something you will take with you throughout life. Something to be proud of and be able to say to your children it is better to wait and not have to lie to your children about it..... My mom always said that if you remain a virgin until you marry, it is something you will never have to regrets. You will not have your children saying well "you didn't wait" and don't let pier pressure push you into having sex. "if you love me you would" is not a good enough reason to sex. you should come back with "if you love me you would not ask, cause you know I want to wait" So if you are remanding a virgin be very proud of yourself and make sure you know the difference between being in love or being in lust.....
2006-11-11 06:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by midget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not silly. I'm 18 and sill a virgin. I'm waiting for that special someone. I think it's good to wait. Shows how much you really care to wait for that special someone.
Good Luck!
2006-11-11 06:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, since when do you care what people think? I am 18 and i am a virgin too. And I wait for the right moment and the right person. I said NO several times i don't regret it.
2006-11-11 06:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by ice_princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOOOOOOOOO its not silly wait until u get married cuz once you give it up u cant get it back! Your virginity is purtity and special for that someone so whatever u do dont give in to what men say trying to get into ur pants and dont give in to temptation just think on Jesus
2006-11-11 06:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by anenabanana_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not so silly at all. Two months from today I'll be 42, and I'm still waiting.
2006-11-11 06:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of age, but maturity and love. Are you responsible enough to care for a life you might create? Probably not at 17 or even 18. Give it a rest . If you are asking about age, then you are not mature enough for sex. Enjoy petting until you get older and truly fall in love.
2006-11-11 06:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by marleyfu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way. I plan on waiting, too. It's a good decision. Don't be pressured by everyone else. I hardly no anyone at my school who isn't a virgin, but it doesn't bother me. And it shouldn't bother you either. You'll know when you're ready.
2006-11-11 06:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not silly to wait. It is one of the greatest gifts you can give to someone you TRULY love.
2006-11-11 06:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by goodbye 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋