she just told me that we should be just freinds. i cant do that, i like her to much. ill do anything to get her back. she said, freinds for now, but i dont know, its driving me insane, i cant be without her
2006-11-11 06:16:46 · 22 answers · asked by Duff M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, if she said just friends have the respect to give her what she wants. If you like her so much you will do her the honor of respecting her wishes. Otherwise you'll come off looking like a pathetic creep.
Really, don't come on here and tell us how much you like her. If you really cared for her you'll respect her wishes. You are making this all about you and that is selfish. You can't have a one sided relationship. Move on. If it is meant to happen, it will. You cannot make someone like you!
2006-11-11 06:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sound like you and her just had a problem and you need to give her space and maybe you call her let her [ that if you where the one that did something not sure if you did ] let her really know that you do not want this and you would like to make IT work and something are worth fighting for and you will make it right but if she feels so strong about being friends then you can understand you tell her that you will back off and wait for a little while and as hard it is give her all the time cause if she wants you she will be wondering about you but if she is done then let her go . I will say if you are a person that do a lot of test then it will be hard but do stop wait about a week or so and touch in with her and if she isn't ready or Say's the same then you need to move on. Wash your hands and learn from your mistakes. Hope this can help. Women and relationships are hard but they can be the best.
2006-11-11 06:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably needs some time to think or maybe its just not working out is there something that u did that made her say that? Or did she do something? See u sound like my ex saying that u need her no u dont and calm down u will find that perfect somone and if u feel like shes driving u insane quit tallking to her cuz u will end up doing something that u will regert cuz those feelings are still there so i suggest that yall quit talking as much if yall are cuz u sound just ask crazy as my ex and i dony want u to do anything to hurt her or urself cuz thats what it sounds like so just pray and ask God to take the hurt away and i will be praying for u
2006-11-11 07:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by anenabanana_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if she is the mature one, and you are being obscessive. Not good. Any guy who says "It's driving me insane, I can't be without her" is a guy who is heading for some serious problems. It means you are thinking about what YOU want, and not what SHE is feeling, and that is not love by a loooooong measure. The other red flag is you saying "I'll do anything" to get her back. This gal is NOT your possession. She's another living breathing human being with the absolute right to decide whom she wants to be with and whom she does not. You walk over the line and take this obscession to the next level, my friend, and you are in trouuuuuble.
2006-11-11 06:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by sharmel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooo, what happened before??? im confused, if u 2 were an item before and she doesnt feel the same way, there isnt anything you can do to get her back right now, just b a good friend, but b honest with her about how u feel. if you pressure her though, you'll only drive her further away, and hey in time you never know, she may change her mind, just hang in there and give her the space she needs. nothing beats honesty, trust and loyalty.
2006-11-11 06:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what's up. That happened to me just 2 weeks ago with my girlfriend I had dated for 1/2 a year. It killed me, and I seriously thought life wouldn't go on. But let me tell you man just try not to think about it. It'll get better. Mine was leading me on after I asked her back and she said no. If that's your case, she's just messing with you. Ask her if there is a chance or not and if she says no, be nice, but just try to leave her alone. Turns out mine didn't really want to be with me anyway. Maybe it's for the better. And trust me man it's a lot easier to find someone else to help you. A new girlfriend. And I know you don't want one now, but you will. It'll all be cool.
2006-11-11 06:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry! But it just sounds like she needs some time. You can't really force someone into a relationship. Not only is it unfair to her, but it's also unfair to you because she would just be with you to keep you happy, not because it was really love. Maybe you should take her up on her friendship idea. If you push the couple thing too much, she may decide to take her friendship away too.
2006-11-11 06:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Emily D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you really don't have much of a choice she obviously is not interested in you more then friendship. you cannot force someone to be more than they want to be, and if you try then that indicates a serious mental issue that is generally cateragarized as CONTROL FREAK. So you need to just get over your issues and move on. there are other girls out there.
2006-11-11 06:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stay friends for now at least. Wait for her to change her mind. If you keep bothering her about it though she may never want to get with you. But on the other hand she may be saying this to see how much you like her. I guess it just depends on your past with her.
2006-11-11 06:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just scared to make a commitment. (usually the guys do it but...) Just keep in touch but at the same time give her space to figure herself out. If she really likes you she will let you know.. and if not just move on... There are plenty of women out there!!!
2006-11-11 06:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by kdbnsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋