I'm a 14 yr old boy and she's the same age I am but I can't talk to her coz I aint got topics.And coz I can't talk to her, her love 4 me decreases n she even said 'I hate u' 2 times but I somehow managed it. pleaz give me some topics.And who ever answers this ques. must be my friend.
2006-11-11 06:16:41 · 10 answers · asked by nayan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Read about philosophy, psychology, and other interesting topics. Then you can talk to her about them and sound interesting to her.
2006-11-11 06:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first try to say u i just jelous on u , at 14 ! u have a girl friend , wow! but now i seriously tell u all over world this is a common problem with boys to manage their girl friend . u donot describe how ur girl friend is? means what she likes, what is her fev journey , ok leave it u just think about her and think deep ly what she wants from u and what she likes , if any thing smile her previously think that and try to repat onc an twice first . then try to find what is her hobby and what is her fevourite attire,(dress), always try to make a good smile and tell her u looking beautiful to day.then discuss about her dress, who gives it ? how she likes the dress etc. then offer her a rose if possible , but that can work for few days . if she likes u , U never need any discussion or any topics , only presence can tell every thing
thanks
dunkey
2006-11-11 06:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by dunkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when guys cant talk I take the lag (IE I talk to fill in the silence) I ususaly talk about non sence like woah look at that! and then start a whole conversation on it which can lead to conversations about other things. example: "what a lovely fruit tree" "yes it is pretty isnt it!?" "yeah. hey! do you know what kind of fruit I like?" "whats that?" "pineapple, it tase good on pizza too!" see that went from a tree to food no problem!
2006-11-11 06:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by StarWarsFanatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Observe what she does. Then ask open ended questions about it.
For example if she is in the band and plays the clarinet, you could ask her what got her interested in the clarinet. This is better than asking "Do you like the clarinet?" to which she can say yes or no.
Good luck.
ps. No friendship necessary ha ha.
2006-11-11 06:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very Good age to fall in love.Before she tells "I HATE U" for the third time, say you LOVE her. A question? Do you know how to kiss? If so, give her a kiss even if she Kicks you on your a-s-s.
2006-11-11 06:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by JILMAAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i really wouldn't go with the 1st anwser unless you want her to break your heart and face!!
just compliment her.
tell her how her day was...
and don't tell her you love if you don't mean it!
'cause then your are starting a relationship with a lie.
-hope that was a lil help!
2006-11-11 07:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by neurotic_squirtle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... if you cannot think of anything to talk to her about then you two obviously dont have any chemistry. even though it might be hard, you should break it off. especially if she said she hates you. sry dude but you have to do this.
2006-11-11 06:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by chiklet1509 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about her and ask her how is she doing and if she said she hates you then.. i think you should move on
good luck
2006-11-11 07:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Deja Vu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know what does she likes for starter and just talk about it
2006-11-11 06:21:27 · answer #9 · answered by jaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK ABOUT WHEN SHE GETS HER PERIOD!!
2006-11-11 06:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by papapwnage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋