When not enthralled in a heated sexual escapade....do you guys say the words "I love you" sincerely? Or are they just that, just WORDS? Explain your answer please. Thanks guys!!!
2006-11-11 06:09:33 · 7 answers · asked by lisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say them only when I feel that i mean them. love to me is the willingness to be uncomfortable in order to make your partner comfortable, it is sacrifice and willingness to walk with them every step of the way even when it is tough.
2006-11-11 06:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I love you" are very special words that envolve strong emotions... I am careful to not use them casually.. On the other hand, I really love the ladies (actually people in general); We are such unique wonderful beings... Anyway, back to your question.. If there wasn't something I liked about the lady we wouldn't be "enthralled in a heated sexual escapade" (AKA PASSION), consequently, I have no problem or reservation telling her what I love "ABOUT HER". e.g. I'm not saying "I'm in love with you" but "I love this (or that) about you"... Since I don't hook-up casually, there is always something about her that I really enjoy..
- So, there's my 2 cents.. As I'm sure you know, we guys are not all the same either.
2006-11-11 14:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is a big different between a girl you really do love then one you are with having fun with and she is the same. I will say to the one I am with now { engaged } I do talk to her but I do tell her that I do love her and more and she respond to me the same cause there isn't anything better then really making love to a women that really Love's you it is real. One for fun I do not use the and didn't;t use false words to make it better why lie about anything it is what it is right. But that was a very long time ago.
2006-11-11 14:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can't remember a time when i wasn't enthralled in a heated sexual escapade
when i say those three words i mean them because there's no reason to lead another person on like that at all
2006-11-11 14:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly pity the man or woman who only can express love under those circumstances. I would hate to think I might leave this life without telling someone I did love how I felt about them. Honestly, I don't get why so many guys are afraid of those words. If they are sincere, it is the pathway to deeper relationships, which are invariably the better ones.
2006-11-11 14:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by stargazerjimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes true, sometimes just words. To decide, see if they are said at any other times. :)
2006-11-11 14:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sometimes we say it because we mean it
2006-11-11 14:13:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋