probably because you made him cheat on his wife. Perhaps a conscious?
2006-11-11 06:12:15
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answer #1
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answered by rogue chedder 4
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Hi. I'm not sure why you don't feel right... Is it because you two aren't married yet or because you feel the way that the two of you hooked up together isn't right?
If it's because you two haven't gotten married yet don't worry. Even though you were together before his divorce and he was probably unhappy with his wife he will still need time to mourn the marriage, that was a serious commitment and it's hard to live without someone you were with for years. Give him time to heal. If he loves you and you guys have agreed that you want to be together I'm sure it won't take him more that a year or two to be ready to jump into that kind of commitment again.
If you are feeling odd about how the two of you got together, of course, you have good reason. He did cheat on his wife. If someone cheats once that usually means that they're a cheater. You know that you could be his next victim. Smart woman. Trust your instincts. My mother always said "the way you get get a man is the same way you'll lose him".
Good luck!
2006-11-11 06:19:36
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answered by blackcaligirl 2
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Hopefully this married man doesn't have children, because you might of just screwed up his life! BUT than again, he did this on his own. Maybe because you don't feel right about this, is because afterall he did CHEAT, and will he cheat on you? If you marry, will he divorce for another woman (you being that woman this time). If you know him a long time, than maybe talk about things together, ask him why it is you feel the way you do, maybe he can solve your worrisome questions to your feelings.
2006-11-11 06:14:14
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answered by DrPepper 6
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Well, ya. You were the reason a couple got divorced! That is why you feel guilt! BUT it was not your decision to get a divorce it was HIS. Just do what feels right. It sounds like he is un-avoidable, so if you aren't gonna be a couple, I would at least try to smooth things out, and be friends. Just follow your heart. It may be hard, but I will lead you to where you need to go.
2006-11-11 06:12:42
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answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3
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Wow.....Sounds like he really wants you....and as life would have it you dont want him, at least as bad.
Funny thing how life screws with us....
Dump him and move on, go ahead its what was meant to happen, either that or some other crazy shyt like you too getting married and you being the wife with a man that has another woman or he the husband of a wife with another man
2006-11-11 06:14:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds like you made a real mess and now you don't want him?? You're a jerk...lesson learned, never mess with a married man!
2006-11-11 06:12:42
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answered by Anonymous
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give it time, he already went as far as divorcing her...not a lot of guys do that. so he didnt use you at all, he actually wants to be with you. if he has kids, thats a different story.
2006-11-11 06:17:29
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answered by bipolarbear 1
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well actually
this is a complex situation
well i think if the could left his wife so he could do with u also
take care dear may be he loved u trually
well just chill alright do what your heart says
2006-11-11 06:12:33
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answer #8
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answered by Spicy Ketchup 4
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stop
you move a chair by moving a chair
there is no getting around suffering or trumping integrity
just stop
2006-11-11 06:11:38
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answered by zigzagidiot 3
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If it doesn't feel right it isn't. Talk to a professional.
2006-11-11 06:11:39
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answered by shell_b_101 2
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