All my friends are proably getting tired of me or something because they dont talk to me anymore or say "hi". I'm trying to start a conversation with them and they dont listen that well and just act like they dont care. My personally? I talk a lot and maybe I should talk about the stuff they want to talk about?
2006-11-11 05:36:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They mostly like to talk about rock music, music, people, they like to hit each other, yell, and sometimes girly stuff, but I dont like to talk about that stuff......could it be that we're too different from each other?
2006-11-11 05:37:15 · update #1
What should I do?
2006-11-11 05:37:32 · update #2
If they don't like to talk to you, stop wasting your time trying to be different just to please them. Try and look for friends that are interested in the things you like to talk about. True friends won't ignore you. Stop being their friends now before you get hurt.
2006-11-11 05:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by abcdefg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dont say "hi" anymore then they might be getting tired of you, you should start making new friends. If they dont listen to what you say or want to talk about it means that you ghave know each other for a long time and now have different interests. I know what you are going through, my friends also talk about rock and some things that are not to interesting to me. I have started making new friends whom i have more in common with. You could try talking about things they want to talk about but you wont be having much fun.
By them ignoring you it seems like they are not very good friends.
Good luck :)
2006-11-11 13:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sancho... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's thee hardest part about friendship; when they start to stop looking at you and being your friend. The same thing happen to me in 9th grade, and guess what i did? I started to hang out with people who like the same things I did. Friends are people who would listen to you even if you complain a lot (I'm one of those). And guess what? Those friends I made when everyone else ditch me: I'm still close friends with them today.
2006-11-11 13:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, when I saw your question I felt sorry for you. If your friends are not talking to you anymore, then it means they are getting bored with your companionship. There may be many reasons for that. It could be from your behaviour or that you guys aint compatible as in what they like is not what you like. In that case, it doesn't mean that you have to behave like them just to please them. You would only be hurting yourself because your selfworth would be greatly diminished. What you should do is to remain who you are and look for someone who cares about you. Or better still care about someone...
2006-11-11 13:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Victor A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and not do a lot of talking, may be you need to get new friends, and you do not have to be so talkative, give other people time to express themselves. The type of friends that you do have, if that is what they want to talk about, you said it yourself, should I talk about what they want to talk about? if you know that is what they want to hear, them that is what you do. You are going to be alright, and you know what to do, just do it!.
2006-11-11 13:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you just have different interests. Look for friends who share your interests and be sure to listen to them. Most people love to talk about themselves.
2006-11-11 13:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk so much around them, and get some freinds who share your interests. We all have freinds with different interests - it's a skill to narrow your conversation topics based on who you're with. You'll get better at it. ;)
2006-11-11 13:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they r the friends of a life time then u should talk about what they want to talk about. but......... what if when u try to talk about what they want they might take advantage
2006-11-11 13:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by yepp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are outgrowing them. i dont have any advice to what u should do, sorry
2006-11-11 13:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by IVE GOT A SECRET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are getting better looking than them..LOL
ignore them..
2006-11-11 13:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋