We have dated 9 months and i feel he might be the one?
2006-11-11 05:27:00 · 29 answers · asked by Vanessa G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are in love doesn't matter.
(I am 40 and she 23;and until now we have 3 wonderful years together)
2006-11-11 05:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
You guys have been dating for 9 months - do you love him? Do you think he loves you? Are you two compatible? Do you enjoy each other's company?
You said you think he might be "the one" so I guess the answer to all of those questions is YES
There's nothing wrong with the age difference - age is just a number, and anyway, traditionally men have always dated women younger than them, so don't worry about it
As long as you two care about each other, that's all that matters, not the fact that he's older than you.
2006-11-11 13:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel he is the right one what would three more years of dating harm? You will be 22 and he will be 37, at the same time you should know for sure. I realize you are wanting an answer to this question now. Not all answers are for now some are to be answered with time. Nine months is not enough time to get to really know how someone really is on the inside. I have had two husbands and both of them were wrong for me in different ways. If I had waited longer to get to know them it still would not have saved my heart but I might not have married them.
2006-11-11 14:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I do believe he's to old for you for alot reasons.
First there's a 15 year differents....I can understand a 5year differents. Okay let's make this real easy image you are a parent and your daughter is 19 what would you really tell her...My daughter is 19 and I wouldn't approve it...Also ask him why would date someone 15 years younger then himself I'm quite sure there are plenty of young ladies his between 25 -30 that he may be more interested in....hanging out even dating is okay but...just don't go rushing into something you have alot of dating ahead of you enjoy your life....So Stop Think About...reguardless the choice is yours...I'm just asking to be really honest and open with yourself and him
2006-11-11 14:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey Girl,
I would have 2 say, I personally, do not believe he is 2 old 4 u. Age is a number and just that. No one except yourself can tell u how u should feel. Nore can anyone tell u not 2 follow ur heart or instincts and if anyone should try, just tell them 2 shove off. If ur in love girl, go 4 it, 100% and don't let anyone stand in ur way. And remember these answers we r all giving u, its just advise. U r the only one who can make that decision. But i wish 4 the best 4 the both of u.
Good luck
2006-11-11 14:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Gijit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not the one. Men over 30 would love to be with very young women because of one thing only. He's the lucky one, not you. TRUST ME, HE'S NOT THE ONE, GIRL. People say age ain't nothing but a number...they're lieing. It does mean a lot when it comes to a major age difference like that. I was always told that if you're going to date an older man, he should be not more than 6yrs older than you. So in your case he shouldn't be more than 25yrs old. Trust me, life will be easier for you if you don't see him. Don't stress yourself over him, you're looking for trouble in so many ways, girl. You want to live life as happy as you can make it. He's not going to help you in that department. He may help in the beginning, but it won't last. Wish you well.
2006-11-11 13:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes he is way too old for you. I was in your situation once so I know what I am talking about. I was 19 and he was 33 and we were not at the same level at all. The thing is that you don´t know when you are 19 even though you think you do.
2006-11-11 13:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by Eileen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only you can answer this one. Is he too old for you ? In 6 years he will be 40 and you will be 25. I am now 41 and I am not the same person nor do I have the same interests as when I was 25.
2006-11-11 13:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Lab girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Vanessa, not every ting appears to be Gold at first though, it is very wonderful. We sometimes get caught up in ourselves and jump at the first thing that makes us feel good and right away, we say "He's the one or she's the one"
Don't do that; Take control of your life first. Have your own Apartment or House, a Good Job, very independent...then when you meet a Man or Woman, you can make better choices to what you feel is right for you. If you have neither, your gambling with dust!
2006-11-11 13:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I got married at 19 to the man that I thought was the one. He was 30. We had a ton of problems and outside of the beautiful son I have, I would have changed everything. I am biased here, but my advice is: Run away. Run away as fast as you can. Also, have you considered why he is dating you and not someone closer to his age? Best wishes.
2006-11-11 13:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by raintigar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there is too big of an age difference.
2006-11-11 13:38:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋