when someone is willing to throw everything away just because you express your feelings to them. They make a promise to come see you and say there is no catch and that they took days off just for that then they break that promise. Not only that your going in the hosiptal monday to have a procdure done and they tell you they cant be there for you? and thats when you need them the most. What am I missing? Is telling your feelings to someone that wrong that i deserve all that? Someone plz tell me what I should do or where I should go from here. I really need advice.
2006-11-11 05:22:23 · 6 answers · asked by oxygenO 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Sunshine not everybody is good for their word. If they make all these promises to you then break them, then hopefully you have learned what you can and can't tell this person and how much trust and faith you can put into their empty promises. It is very sad when this happens but trust me when I tell you although it may be the first time this has happened so far in your life it will not be the last, and not necessarily from this person but others also. It would be nice sometimes if the world was a stage and all the people we knew where the actors playing the parts we put them in. But that is not the reality and as such we have to live with others frailties (as well as our own) and continue to be as good a friend to others as we'd like them to be to us. Best of luck with your operation on Monday and hopefully you will have somebody there to help support you during this scary time.
2006-11-11 05:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, call someone else, a different family member or friend to go with you Monday. Maybe they can't handle the stress of hospitals. No excuse, I know, however I have known folks who do not go to hospitals because they just can't handle being strong enough for the other person, or they have a deep seated fear of some sort.
It is not wrong to express your feelings, fears and desires, however you sound like you might be very stressed over the procedure, and maybe they are as well.
After the hospital procedure is done Monday, try to move on, and forgive the person. It only serves to hurt you further down the road if you don't grant forgiveness. I never said forget, just try and forgive.
Best of luck to you Monday! I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-11-11 13:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by soulful thinker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I experience the same problems right now and my feeling is they do not love us and cannot tell that directly because either they are too intelligent or too ignorant.... They do not love us if they do not express their love... No illusions...
Tomorrow I am going to say my wirth good buy and... no any look back... better for everybody...
Lets turn over the page... and lets start new one in spite of how painful is can be... That life...
2006-11-11 13:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow those people are triping or what u have 2 move on 2 meet new people and those who u say freinds say good bye 2 them because all they doing is just to let u down i dont even think they care about u ,u question happen 2 me in real life and i did what i just wrote u and i have 3 new good friends that i really appreaciate them to always be with me.
2006-11-11 13:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you really do love something ( or someone ) set it free, if it comes back to you, it's yours, if it does not, it never was !!
2006-11-11 13:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mantra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remeber this, people will sometimes take your kindness for your weakness.
2006-11-11 13:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋