I am dating a Very great girl. She is sweet, funny, charming and seems to really care about me. I am really Really into her; however, she has an Awful taste in clothes. They do not flatter her at all and I feel selfconcious about what she wears. What do I do?!?!? Someone Please Help!
2006-11-11 05:03:08 · 16 answers · asked by Matthew D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go shopping with her and while she's trying clothes she'll for sure ask you how they look. Tell her then. Or choose stuff for her and show her and ask if she likes them too.
2006-11-11 05:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her she can't pick clothes, just tell her that she's so beautiful, it's a shame she doesn't choose clothes that complement her beauty. Then take her to a store where they will actually help her, where the salespeople are quasi-wardrobe consultants and will outfit her properly.
I recently took a job that required suit and tie level clothing, and I had no clue (I wore shorts, polos and tennis shoes at my last place of employment), so I went to a certain place (not going to advertise them here, but you've heard of them) and told them "I'm lost, help." Now I turn heads everywhere I go, I feel more comfortable dressed up than dressed down, and I'll never buy dress clothes from anywhere or anyone else. It took me a few months to feel comfortable, but once I did, I feel so much better about myself--not that I felt bad before, but clothes do make a difference.
Another plus is now I am beginning to understand what goes together, what's sharp and what's not, etc. So you do learn by osmosis eventually.
Hope that helps. The main thing, is respond to her dignity, don't complain about her clothes, and she's more likely to listen and comply.
2006-11-11 05:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something. when I see a woman or a Man that I know or have been introduced, I let them know right off the back if I think their clothes don't match or it is not them and I do it a nice way.
For example. "Mr Davidson, Your shirt is very nice, but its not you. You have a short hair with broad shoulders and I think you would look awesome in solid color shirts". Mr. Davidson responds with hostility, "Give me the money and I'll buy some"
"Well you didn't have to take it wrong, I 'm only trying to help.".
2006-11-11 05:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she puts on an outfit try to like say. i think that other shirt would look better with that u know..or just dont exagerate when u say u like her clothes. give her half-hearted comments, and she'll know from that, that ur not really liking the clothes but protecting her feelings, if she cares about fashion at all shell try to change up
2006-11-11 05:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by liltammy1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah Maybe you should try by taking her to the mall and treatin her to a whole new wardrobe without making it obvious. Tell her that you love her in those clothes and how pretty she looks in them then she'll probably keep on wearing them for you.
2006-11-11 05:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
exaggerating. you already know there's a spell examine. at the starting up, why are you with him? He sounds extremely offensive. What portion of his stink made you fall for him? i might want to refuse to work out him till he were given with this methodology. Then see how he receives sparkling authentic quick. If his personal hygiene bothers then you you actually do not love him unconditionally. no matter if that's unconditional, his stink would not hardship you. that would properly be a deal breaker for me. How did you meet this Mr. outstanding besides? i might want to assert you aren't to any extent further being picky sufficient. you favor to advance your criteria slightly.
2016-10-16 08:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sensitive.
When you are having a coffee, say that she dresses lousy, suggest that she burn all her clothes, that she would look better wearing a barrell with suspenders and you would rather eat poop than be seen with her.
Having worked your way into the topic, then say that her taste in clothes could do with some improvement.
2006-11-11 05:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Pastor Sauce 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her. Just learn to accept her choice of clothes. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and how can you worry about a little thing like that when she is everything else to you?
2006-11-11 05:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start by taking her shopping and telling her that you are going to outfit her and pay for it.
Love is accepting someone as they are...She may not think your taste in clothes is all that great either.
So put up, shut up or move on...
Loving Kindness
2006-11-11 05:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Coco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you go out with her and you see certain clothes you see as very cute,recommend them to her.tell her like "i think you look great in that dress or that color will look hot on your body" And i believe ,she will start developing interest in them.She will be very embarrassed if you inform anybody about this.You can't trust her friends or sister to help out on this,gals easily let issue like this out in little comfrontations.
2006-11-11 05:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋