I was hurt when I was 16, so I never had the chance to get a bf or lose my virginity, and because of this a lot of my friends and some of my family, always made me feel like I was some sort of weird ailen, am I a wierd ailen or am I just a normal human being?
2006-11-11 04:55:02 · 19 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're very normal. Some people just don't go from one bf to another.
2006-11-11 04:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Losing ones virginity is not a reason to have a boyfriend. I can understand that you were hurt, and many times the first pain from a relationship can be the most difficult to heal from. It is important that you realize there is nothing wrong or abnormal about your choices. It is also important to note that not everyone needs to lose their virginity by any set time or age. I was 21 and married when I finally lost mine.
If you are a wierd alien, let me be the first to welcome you and we can discuss diplomatic relations if you wish. But I do not think that this is the case and you should simply be who you are. It will happen when it happens, do not force anything to occur or you may regret the consequences. Be patient and be happy, forget what everyone else will tell you about what is normal. Is it normal for you?
2006-11-11 05:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, don't let others dictate how you will live your life. You were hurt and decided not to date. I had "casual" girl friends but not a steady one until I graduated high school. While they were fussing, fighting, breaking up, getting back together, crying, I was having the time of my life. You don't have to be in a relationship to be happy. THAT IS A LIE!! Live your live, enjoy it, and if someone comes along that interests you go for it. BUT, just because you have been hurt before doesn't mean you should never date again.
2006-11-11 05:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it.If you have never had a bf then there is a reason for this.Not saying that it is you.I am saying it is just not the time.No you're not an alien.It is ok to not be with someone or still have your virginity.Being pure is a good thing.Someone will come along and sweep you off of your feet and you will then know that the time is right.
2006-11-11 05:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by nick j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the time is right it will happen. You are a normal and beautiful human being. Keep telling yourself that.
Don't try looking for a boyfriend......instead try making guy friends and in time (the right time) you will have a boyfriend.
First you need to look past and move on from being hurt when you were 16. Sometimes we tend to let bad experience hold us back from the good experience life has to offer.
2006-11-11 05:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by LOVELY LADY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r normal,everyone is ,somepeople is smart then other ,but maybe u know something that they dont know
just keep smiling ,some day ur day will come
do not get oppesset,make ur life u still young ,and the mean thing the most important u r in this world ,will be there somewhere anywhere in the corner what u looking for .
do not go and look for it ,let it come and look for u
do u understand me ?i hope ,and good luck with ur life
i million wishies for ur life
take care
2006-11-11 05:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by praia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's to say what's normal or not? Don't listen to those people who treat you weirdly. Virginity is a precious object we women have that we decide whom and when we want to give it up. I don't see what's the big issue is if you are haven't have sex yet. Don't let other people decide for you because hell, isn't it already hard enough to deal with it by yourself?
2006-11-11 05:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on forming friendships with guys and not on the physical side of relationships. Your virginity is a great gift. Hold onto it as long as you can.
2006-11-11 05:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na it's not really weird or abnormal but maybe you should consider starting a relatinship. By the way relationships ae healthy
2006-11-11 05:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah,this is absolutely okay to be a single at any age.do you think we take birth only to be with someone when we grow up? life means a lot more than just a bf.... let love be A PART of your life,not THE PART of your life.
2006-11-11 05:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by nilu v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋