Ok, so I went out with this guy before and he cheated on me once...I gave him a second chance but then he started fooling around with other girls again...But I still really, really like him...And then there's this other guy that I've never dated before, but I was informed by a trustworthy person at my school that he goes out to fool around, but I really like this guys too...I just need to have your advice as to which should I go for the hoe or the one who already broke my heart...
2006-11-11 04:54:18 · 18 answers · asked by Courtney W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about neither? There are decent guys out there, be patient and you'll find one some day.
2006-11-11 05:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Earthling 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someone should raise their standards as to the guys they go after.
It seems like he didn't really break your heart because you are willing to go back to him. You already know that the other guy will fool around... so... To me it sounds like a coin flip.
The new guy (hoe) at least would have a clean slate (for a while) with you, I'd probably start with that one, at least if that doesn't pan out, it shows that you aren't in the back pocket of the other guy who originally cheated on you.
2006-11-11 04:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by jlrgds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose the "man whore" two years ago when I was in the situation and now we are engaged and got a baby on the way..But I still find myself thing about the other guy and how my life would be with him. But in my heart I know that I made the right decision for me!
2006-11-11 04:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. You will be getting hurt and cheated on again by either one of the two. Go out and find someone that will respect you and not cheat on you. There are some guys out there that will not cheat.
2006-11-11 05:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you are a single respectable female. The right choice would be NEITHER OF THEM. Find yourself a REAL man that is ready to be there for you and that won't sleep around and isn't a man whore. Do the right thing...protect your dignity! Good Luck!
2006-11-11 04:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why in the heck would you want either one of them? do you feel so badly about yourself that you have to have a "so called" man in your life? one you call a "man whore" and the other a "man whore" that broke your heart too? jeeeeezzzzzzzzzzzzz girl I think you need to think about what you are doing!!!!!!!!! why go down that road with either of these chumps. better you work on you and your self esteem.......then you would not have to ask a question like this that is a "NO BRAINER!!!!!!!!!!!!"
2006-11-11 05:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by trish the dish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I suggest you do is dump both of them like the pieces of trash they are, then you should find a man who will treat you with the respect surely deserve. Somewhere is a good man out there for you, I know you will find him. Good Luck.
2006-11-11 05:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is coping with dying of his spouse/lady chum in an extremely unusual way. i could tell your babies that each and every physique human beings handle their grieve in distinctive approaches. As harsh as that's that that's maximum possibly their first fathers way of coping with dropping his significant different. Its not precisely the comparable yet my brother had a pal whose mom committed suicide this became into probable six years in the past. His dad (who's certainly his step-dad) yet raised him moved yet another women human beings (the lady became right into a pal of his mom and dad) into the residing house not even a month after his spouse’s suicide. It’s distinctive from in the reality that they are nevertheless collectively, not married yet residing collectively. My brothers pals became into additionally an grownup (between the an prolonged time of nineteen – 21 on the time). i will merely keep in mind thinking how strange it regarded whilst my brother instructed me that he (pals dad) had moved a sparkling women human beings in not even a month later. whilst he have been with is spouse for over a decade. besides the reality that i will say even although i'm an grownup if one in all my dad and mom died and the residing dad and mom desperate to start relationship or shifting somebody else in so quickly i could be extremely affronted. i will understand that it is going to be unusual on your babies much extra that their first father is going from lady to lady. that they are nevertheless grieving their first mom. That he expects the youngsters to work out his new squeeze as their step-mom. i detect that thoroughly unacceptable and since the youngsters’s dad and mom. i could permit him be attentive to he's welcome to work out the youngsters despite the fact that that his lady pals are actually not welcome. certainly if he gets to the ingredient the place he's definitely committed to a distinctive lady, then it is a distinctive concern. Even then the youngsters shouldn't sense obligated to view their first fathers lady chum as their “step-mom”. A step-parent is somebody married on your parent not a identify given to each individual who a parent dates.
2016-10-17 03:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you know what you're getting into go for the man-ho. Just be sure to leave your heart at home.
2006-11-11 04:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Switch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going after the wrong guys. once a cheater always a cheater. i've been there before and they never change. you need to find a good guy who wants to be with you and only you.
2006-11-11 04:58:20 · answer #10 · answered by bbydol221 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋