2006-11-11 04:28:37 · 9 answers · asked by traci s 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
welcome to the joy of parenting.
2006-11-12 23:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because your parenting skills need work. Youre inconsistant.
If one two three ended in punishment every time without question, no matter what, not matter where, then children would know without a doubt whats expected of them.
My mom never got angry with us, and we never misbehaved... when we did, we got a spanking, no questions asked. We knew it would happen, but we acted out anyway.
Children push you as far as they can with each new thing they do. Its the job of a parent to remain consistant no matter what knew techniques the kids are trying.
2006-11-11 04:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
kids like to test on how far they can get before you get angry. Its there way of finding their boundaries. They don't want to make you mad or upset as a matter of fact they want to please you and make you happy they are just learning right from wrong. All kids go through this and it will be frustrating but don't give up they will realize that you are looking for their best interest.
2006-11-11 04:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by angie1412 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have pushed you and tested you enough to know how far they can go. You have shown them that it is ok to wait for you to get angry.
2006-11-11 04:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by BossMama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All kids will push to see how far they can go. Especially when parenting isn't consistent, they will do it all the more.
"cause yesterday mom said I can, today she said no.. So I need to know just how far she will go today."
2006-11-11 05:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because kids hate the feeling of someone else having control over them. No one likes that.
So why treat them like that?
2006-11-11 08:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
BEFORE YOU ARE TOLD YOUR PARENTING SKILLS DON'T WORK IS THE CHILD ADHD OR BIPOLAR? ONLY A PHYCHITRASTIST CAN TELL YOU THAT AND IT MAY TAKE MORE THAN ONE VISIT
2006-11-11 15:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becouse you probably need to show them some deciplin and tell them they can't act how ever they want to and that aint how we roll up in dis mug!!!!!!
2006-11-11 13:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they think your playing with them, they need to know that you mean what you say,and you say what you mean.
2006-11-11 07:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋