ok, i met this guy on a date site and we'd been talking online for about a month, including on webcam, and everything was going great. We went on a date 1st time this week, and that also went great, but since then hes ignored me. obviously it makes it look like hes not interested but what i dont understand is that he hasnt blocked me off his msn, hes blatantly online infront of me but wont chat. I know hes got some insecurities and is a bit shy and he admitted hes confused about what he wants, people have suggested to me hes playing mind games/hard to get to see what i'll do next. does this sound like an attention seeking thing? i know it seems like hes not interested but why not just block me? ive given him the option to tell me hes not interested but he wont, is he keeping me hanging on for some reason? i know hes quite hooked on the net and i have a feeling he craves attention, what do i do?
2006-11-11 04:21:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reality bites, maybe hes just not that into you. Ive been in this situation and I must say that it su__ks! Youre right, men who cant get their balls working have insecurities they need to conquer. Maybe he thinks ver high of you and that amking things more serious will eventually hurt his ego when you both find out the real color of your worlds. I dont with you but I am not asking you to give up, not now...give it some time. Its hard but as youve said you already did your part by sending clues of "interest". Girl, give yourself a deadline for this situation. Id be more happy if you end up getting over this stupid guy, on the other side, if you cant get him out of your head still, then maybe he's supposed to be there. Hope this helps.
2006-11-11 04:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean he likes you very much?! He has an ego! A male ego at that! They're very big ya know? What if you shoot him down! His ego like a woman's feelings. Can also be crushed?! Maybe he hasn't found the strength to endure the pain that you may bestow upon him?! He doesn't know if you will or not. But? What if you did?! Give him his strength through you. If you like him? Let him know?!
2016-05-22 05:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's sending you a clear message that he's not interested in taking your relationship any further. Sorry to be so brutally honest but I think you should be aware.
If a man wants you, he will move mountains to get you. Furthermore, why would you be willing to consider someone who is playing games so early on? Us women crave emotional security over everything. If a man knows you will bend over backwards to please him, he will see how far you will bend over.
You're unique and special. Set your standards high. Enjoy your season of singleness and NEVER settle. Good luck babe!
2006-11-11 05:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Moglai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe youre just not his cup of tea... if you know where he lives go around there and speak to him face to face. I think at times like this a bit of bunny boiling is a good thing! Girl fight for your man even if it means turning into glenn close from fatal attraction... If not try to get over him he's obviously not worth it and theres a million other fish in the online sea x
2006-11-11 04:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by crash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why oh why do girls never realise that chasing a guy will put him right off, even if he was vaguely interested to begin with?
Ignore him. Completely. Get on with your life. He's not going to change his mind and you're just making a eejit of yourself by trying to get his attention.
2006-11-11 04:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are men in this world who can't hack the reality of, erm, reality and so use cyberspace as their playground. However, if you suggest meeting up with them, then they freak out. Been there done that, you ought to know better than hooking up with creeps off MSN!
2006-11-11 04:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not interested in you. Maybe you thought the date went fine but obviously he did not. Find someone else that interests you because this guy is a serial on line dater.
P.S. Hope you did not have sex with him.
2006-11-11 04:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing games with you. The best thing you can do for yourself is not play his game. Play your own. He's being very disrespectful. If I were you I would block him and let him see what it feels like. Move on to other friends.
2006-11-11 04:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are just f** a** holes like that. they cant tell you what they think they just stay quiet. he doesnt like you and he doesnt want to talk to you, i know guys who brake up with a girl by just not answering there calls ever again until the girl gets the hint. MEN SUCK! but i love one heheh
2006-11-11 04:26:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to shy to block ,not interested enough to respond
forget about him
go for somebody more enthusiastic
2006-11-11 04:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋