i have loved this man for 10 years since we were in highschool, after we broke up (in high school) we haven't seen each other. until one day he came back and we became good friends, he said he still likes me and we can continue what we have started before... but one day he just suddenly changed, he's not answering my calls and email, i haven't heard from him anymore... and it really bothers me alot. i wanted to tell him that i still love him so deeply... but i'm afraid of his reaction and might hear something that might hurt me... i almost believe in destiny when he came back but now... i'm in deep pain, and misses him so much... what should i do??
2006-11-11 04:18:50 · 18 answers · asked by sky ^_^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him.it will relieve you psychologically.remember though that men lose respect for women who act desperate and cannot let go.you must not show him that so desperate otherwise you will be repulsive.sometimes moving on is against all odds is the best option.good luck to you.
2006-11-11 05:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by niko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 years is a pretty long time,... I wud say frm the this situation that the boy is ignoring u becuz he believes that u hav done sumthign wrong.. mayb he feels the same way too and luves u a lot frm heart and when he see's u tking to another guy, tht amkes him jealous so the way,... he shows that to you is by ignoring u and making u jealous.. an apology is all thats needed best at teh moment... also jus tell him how u feel becuz sooner or later u will hav to accept the truth.. i think he still luves u and thats the reason why he's ignoring u cuz sumhow he feels jealous.. its bette rot find out the truth rather than stay in the darkness... gud luk!! :D
2006-11-11 04:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you shud. There is always a risk of pain involved but you have to bear it. Once it is decided this matter shud be over, whatever the outcome. At the end be strong enough not to repent for anything and know that you did the right thing. Keep the flame burning inside of you, I just hope the right and deserving man doesnt miss your love. That wont be fair!
2006-11-11 04:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how painful this is all to you. He has sent you a huge warning signal. He is obviously not interested and it has NOTHING to do with you. Do not be hurt, be glad that he is gone. He isn't honest and never will be, with you or anyone else. He has issues that he needs to resolve and no woman can help him with them. It may take time, but forget about him and find someone that is honest with you and takes into consideration your feelings. You are worth it!!
2006-11-11 04:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by smwah345 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone if i were you, great that he came back into your life, but just to disappear as quickly as he entered your life, it sounds really dodgy to me.
Just be 'upfront' and tell him how you feel, and then wait for his reply, baring in mind, it may not be the answer you were waiting for.
2006-11-11 04:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by classychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to tell him...no matter how hard it is....TELL HIM even if you leave it in a message on his answering machine.
You will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't.
And, if he doesn't feel the same it will break you up inside...for awhile...and then you will heal.
if you don't get it out, it can honestly destroy you inside. TELL HIM NOW.
2006-11-11 04:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Shakira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel ....he may not know. If he still continues to ignore you then forget him and go find someone who cares about YOU.
2006-11-11 04:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If he goes away again you'll know it's over then you can carry on with your life. Pain eases with time.
2006-11-11 05:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a waste of space dont let thisguy treat you like a bam move on use your credit on some one ten times better than him
2006-11-11 05:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by denzil732 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is def doesn't like you in that way anymore...... If he does he will still contact wit you and not moving on with his life
2006-11-11 04:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋