2006-11-11 04:15:40 · 9 answers · asked by dmdmdm30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Anger in people usually stays a life time, but not in all cases tho. It's a decission you have to make rather if you can deal with this for a lifetime, or should you leave him. I'm 45 years old and people I know that had anger problems that's even attended anger management classes still has those angers today. Very few have I've seen that took a turn for the better.
Personally myself, his anger will only do emotional damage to your child's mind as that child constantly watches all that hollering and yelling going on and the fighting between you's, now do you want that? Give him the boot and think of your child. instead!
2006-11-11 04:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Iceman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should certainly at just recommend that your man take anger management or anger control groups. A lot of loving men have gone to these programs and find them very helpful in finding other healthy outlets for their anger. If it becomes to much for you and your little guy then you may need to relocate and/or go to a women's shelter for help. Your child should not be subjected to this violence as quite often children who witness this form of behaviour come to view it as normal and act the same way once they become involved in relationships. Another suggestion would be if you and your man can attend some form of couselling for couples then you can be an active participant in helping him overcome obstacles when he becomes angry. Best of luck and I do hope that you can salvage this relationship with the help of professionals and live a happy healthy live as a family.
2006-11-11 04:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him! Otherwise your child will learn not to respect you and other women as well. I know for a fact that it will become worse with time, because this kind of anger is an illness, and you staying doesn't change him. He needs to see a psychologist.
2006-11-11 04:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by HSB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. See how willing he is to get into anger management classes or something. If he doesn't make any effort to get professional help, then leave permanently.
2006-11-11 04:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY! Next time he may hit your child instead of you- especially as he/she starts to have more opinions. People with anger issues do not change- maybe temporarily, but not permenantly. Things are complicated now, but they will only become more so with time. Get out while you can!
2006-11-11 04:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ritata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Until he's willing to go to anger management, and really make some changes, it's not safe for you and your child.
2006-11-11 04:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is he so angry? the first thing you need to do is protect your daughter at all costs then start to really figure out where this relationship is heading then protect yourself and have a talk with him tie em up if you have to ask yourself truly is he really dangerous? thats a very important question don"t downplay his anger but don"t make him out to be something he is not have someone nearby when you have this talk if need be
2006-11-11 04:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by rpone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ...never! atleast for the sake of the child.. dont leave him ... now its not ur relationship thats important after having the child .. its abt the future of the child... the child wud rather prefer to b with his original father... as for the anger of the husband its because of the intense pressure.. sex helps relieve tension and anger.. jus give him wat he wants.. dont break up !! gud luk!! :D
2006-11-11 04:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes you should because think of your son what is he going to think each time your husband hit's that it is ok to hit women
2006-11-11 04:20:02 · answer #9 · answered by dan k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋