i met a girl 1 year ago ,we had a baby ,she have her house i have mine ,but she is getting her house paid from the goverment ,and the house i live in is not mine heither .i just pay the rent .
i live 30 miles away from her and my little tresure ( that i miss every sec ) what should i do ,should i live with her and make a go of it .
she tell me she love me a lot ,i beleive her ,i trusth her ,only i want is to make her to feel happy ...will she want me to move close to her ?what u woman think ?
2006-11-11 04:15:28 · 5 answers · asked by praia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think it is well worth asking her how she would feel about trying to be a real family,,who better to have as the baby,s father living with them but the baby,s father? there is no shame in wanting to try so go for it,,,how will you know if you dont try.
2006-11-11 04:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'll skip the whole "get married to live right by God," (that I whole heartedly agree with) but yes, I think you should move in together. It's important for a child to have both parental figures in their life (masculine and feminine.) Children need security, especially babies. Yes, move in with her. I do however think whoever is working should have dibs on where to live. If you're BOTH working, it depends on who's bringing in the most income. I do think you should find a new place to make your own. Whether you move closer to her or vice versa, it's important to start off in a NEW place I think. That way it doesn't feel like she's imposing on your space. Blend your things and make your home together....and consider marriage and don't have anymore children until you are married! (Sorry, had to throw that in there.)
2006-11-11 12:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it. Your baby needs you too and living together means you don´t have to miss important moments and developments. All you want is to make your girlfriend happy and living with her is a good way of testing your feelings.Good luck to you !
2006-11-11 12:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Eileen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have you talked to her about moving in? if she loves you why wouldn't she want you there closer to them, I would want the man I love and my baby's dad living with me.
2006-11-11 12:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let's see..............should you shack up, fornicate, and have more illegitimate children....................instead of marry the mother of your child and be right in the eyes of God.
Hmmmmmmm........Dang, that's a toughy! (;
2006-11-11 12:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋