how do i know if he likes me?! pls read,...?

Question

i recently went out with a guy for five months when i found out he was cheating on me, i chucked him..

but thats not the point, over the summer i spent a three week course at the gaelthacht(irish college, its fun!!).. my close male friend was with me(lets call him bob), and well id liked him b4 so naturally i started to like him again. but i didnt say anything, because i had a boyfriend. and he meant so much to me. but i did confide in my female friends that were with me.

one of my friends is sisters with bob. and recently, after i broke up with my boyfriend, my friend found out that bob had liked me at the gaelthacht..

at the moment i like bob, i talk to him a good bit in school..

problem: if i tell him i like him, and he doesnt like me, ive lost him as afriend, never mind any thing else...

question: -how do i find out if he likes me? like what do i look for..
-and how do i tell him i like him..


no sarcastic answers, thanks!!! xxx

i dont know if he likes me, thats my question, how do i find out?! like shud i just sit around waiting for something that wont happen?!

Answer 1

I believe telling him you like him is a risk worth taking, because it would be a sincere confession. Pretending that your feelings are plainly platonic would just make you suffer more and you will not be honest towards him.

Fishing on him liking you would not matter much because it is so obvious you DO like him, or else you will not ask us. Knowing if he likes you or not could also be done, as long as you are willing again to take the risk because it could either be a positive or a negative response.

If a guy truly likes you, he should be man enough to tell you he does. Psyching it out might lead to unexpected circumstances. It's best to let him know where you stand. You, at least, are true to your feelings. He'd be a fool to let it go.

Goodluck!

Answer 2

You won't lose him as a friend.
It sounds like the guy already likes you if he liked you at the gaelthacht.
People are not that fickle, and if he is still talking to you...well, there ya go.
Just tell him how you feel...without being really dramatic or anything. I would approach it by asking him about that experience at gaelthacht, and how you thought you really got along there...talk about it, get him talking about it, and see what he says.

Answer 3

well since you said you are begning to like this guy,i do not think you should tell him first you just wait and see the way he acts when he is around you.if you see that he likes you too and he is shy to tell you then you can go ahead and let him know the way you feel about him. through your words i do not think you should lose such a good friend.Take care

Answer 4

if u have been friends for longer than at least a year than im sure it will be fine if u tell him u like him. If he liked you before than he wont think it is weird u like him. i was in this exact predicament before. we went out and decided later that it wasnt right for us. we still hang out all the time. he might still like u now.
_+_go for it_+_

Answer 5

You wait for him to tell you first. That way, you are saved the embarrassment of rejection and you are given the certainty of his love.

Answer 6

Ask your friend(his sister).Look to see if he is flirting or doing things for you. That will always work.

Answer 7

Observe him well,then you will discover if he is in love with you or not.Good luck.