Ok so im "freshly" 16 ( i turned 16 in sept) and well ive never been kissed & im a junior in High School... i ve had bf's but not long enough to where we have kissed. Is this ok or am i a failure at life.
2006-11-11 04:12:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is Okay. You have saved yourself a lot of spit and germ swapping. hahahahaha
You have a lifetime ahead, so why the rush?
2006-11-11 04:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never entertain the idea of being a failure at life, simply by the number of people you have or have not been with.
At your age, you shouldn't even be worried about having a love life. I know that you feel like everyone around you has been there, and you're the odd one out, but I promise you, in two years, when you are out of high school, you'll realize how little it means. I see people getting married while still in school, or the year after they graduate and I have to shake my head and sigh. You will change so much that first year out, and continue to do so for at least 4 years after graduation. Once you are out from under that cloud of what's acceptable and, dare I say "cool", you will learn so much about yourself. When you get to that point, (and again, away from high school, in college if you decided to attend) things will be easier, and you will meet men who share your interests. You won't have to worry about your love life dictating your level of success, because that pressure will be gone.
For now, just focus on your interests, on school, on whatever you are into. The best things in your life will happen when you stop thinking about it, I promise.
2006-11-11 04:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by BrightEyedBlasphemer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Failure at life no way girl!!! You are just fine. Its VERY likely that LOADS of people don't have their first kiss until 16, 17, 18, and just don't say it out loud. Don't look for it, the right time will come to you when its meant to.
2006-11-11 04:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by alwayslarat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl let me tell you it is okay. I was 22 before I got my first kiss. It was 1 1/2 months after I was engaged. It is good to know that the only person you have kissed is your husband. He was happy that I waited until I knew I was going to marry that person before I kissed them. I was going to wait until my wedding day but I just couldn't make it that long. He was my first peck and my first real kiss all in the same night. It was really sweet. And it meant so much more.
2006-11-11 04:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. You are young and there will be a nice young man in waiting to kiss : )
Besides, at your age, kissing ususally leads to OTHER things and you have a number of other things to concentrate on I'm sure. Consider this something that makes you unique in a GOOD way; not a failure.
2006-11-11 04:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Albritton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is. I had mine when I was 12 and to tell you the truth is wasn't really that big of a deal. And no your not a failure at life. Now when you 30 then you should worry about it.
2006-11-11 04:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok not to be kissed at 16 it means that when the time is right and you find that lucky guy you will probably kiss until the cow's come home
2006-11-11 04:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by dan k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident that's ok and you're actually not a failure. merely take existence because it comes, do not rush those variety of issues or the rest, or it finally ends up feeling strange and it is not as sturdy because it may desire to be. permit issues are available in due time.
2016-10-17 03:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aimee, WOAH, slow down girl. Don't ever say your a failure ok. Just because you haven't kissed a boy yet? That's ludicrous. Its ok, don't rush yourself, you have plenty of time.
2006-11-11 04:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine. I think its ok to kiss now that you are 16 but don't even think about having sex until after your 21st.
2006-11-11 04:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by cadodevine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok my first kiss was when I was 171/2
2006-11-11 04:16:13 · answer #11 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋