Follow the advice of everyone here. DUMP HIM (and give me a call) LOL
2006-11-11 03:33:43
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answered by D.C 4
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Man did you screw up!! You had it all and went for what's behind door number one. Bzzzzzz....NOTHING!!! Do you think that maybe he has found a girl that he really loves? I realize that it is a short relationship to just jump into and get married, but you never know!!! Tattoos are kind of permanent, maybe his feelings for her are the same. Do you love the consolation prize guy? Not enough to marry? What took you six months to figure this out? Are you wanting him back because you can no longer have him? Well all these questions are irrelevant since he now is going to get married. The only thing I can say is you may try talking to him, some how and at least get your point across to him. You initiated the break up and had another guy. It's a hard fact that some of us will not go back, especially after another guy was in the picture. "You can't go back home again" is a true and sad saying......but that the way it is.... Good luck to you in your life quest.....Doc
2016-05-22 05:16:06
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answered by Anonymous
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You are 16 staci,you got to wise up to the fact that this what some boyfriends do,and you are taking all this to heart and not really needing to.Go out with your own circle of friends,do your own thing-there are some good posts on here,why not try some ideas posted? If your b/f has done this 5 times to you in the past,don't you think it is time to move on-and not let it happen a sixth time?He obviously does not deserve you,so please don't let yourself be a carpet and let him.....OR anyone else walk all over you,you are better than that:-)
2006-11-11 04:38:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Is your boyfriend called Joe by any chance? If so all Joe's are tossers! You are WAY to good for him. You are still young and you will get hurt many more times. Some men or boys are just not worth the time or upset. When you find "The one" you will laugh back at this. Come out clubbing with us we will cheer you up. Stay single and just enjoy yourself relationships are too much of a pain in the **** especially at your age. Tell his mum she would kick his *** for loosing a girl like you.
2006-11-11 04:54:54
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answered by Kirstycs 2
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Quite simply you should drop kick his butt out of your life. Right now he is treating you like his personal toy that he can pick up and put down as he likes. It is obvious that he would rather hang out with his mates then make time for you.
Obviously he lacks the maturity to be in a relationship, so dump him and go find a guy who will treat you right.
2006-11-11 03:56:52
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answered by pab76 2
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No guy likes it when a female chases him, if he tells you he'll call you back and he doesn't DON'T call him back it makes you look desperate. So what I want to know is why is he even given the opportunity to let you down a 5th time? Ever heard of 3 strikes you're out! First time shame on him, second time shame on you, third time leave him alone he's obviously not going to change. You're setting yourself up for these "let downs" he will only do what you allow him to, you've allowed him to let you down again, and again, and again, and again so why wouldn't he do it again?
Dump him, don't go looking for Love it'll come your way!
2006-11-11 03:37:53
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answered by *~KeL~* 2
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First of all you should have no problem with him going out with his friends to hang out but NOT when he's made plans with you first. You should come first, not them. If they want to go out then it's fine but let them pick a date with him, not on your night together.
With him saying that he's going to call you back in 30 minutes and then turning off his phone is a little shady. Why would he have to turn off his phone? Is he worried that you'll hear something you shouldn't like another woman? Is it that he thinks that the women around him wouldn't appreciate the fact that he has a girlfriend?
I think that you should give him a piece of his own medicine. The next time that he blows you off so he can go out with his friends you just tell him "oh okay, that's great... my friends just called me and wanted me to go out with them." Then go out with some friends of yours and do what he did to you, or stay at home and tell him that you'll call him later and "forget" like he did. I bet he won't like that one bit. He might just change his tune then, if not then it's not worth it to stay with him and move on. Good luck!
2006-11-11 03:36:25
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answered by acehernandez2006 3
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How would you feel if you went out with your mates and he kept ringing you? It sounds to me like he doesn't want commitment but he should be honest with you as you obviously have a lot of feelings for him.
I think you should make yourself not get in touch with him and I bet he will eventually contact you. But you must have a chat with yourself to see if you really want to be treated like this. Or better still, start dating one of his mates!!!!
2006-11-11 03:35:01
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answered by bluegizmored 2
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You and he had plans, he dumped you for his friends, then disrespected you by lying about calling back and turning off his phone. According to you, you gave him 5 chances. I realize men need their male bonding, but he needed to keep "mate time" and "you time" separate. I think you've given him enough chances. Find someone who puts you first.
2006-11-11 03:34:26
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answered by butrcupps 6
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Get rid of him he is not mature enough to be in a relationship
He keeps you hanging cause its s e x on tap when he wants it
Find someone to treat u as u deserve wine and dine u and to make u feel special
2006-11-11 03:33:31
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answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5
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Go get the book, "He's Just Not That Into You' and read it. The guy's trying to tell you that's he's not interested in you and he's being a jerk about the way he's doing it. Look for a human to date.
2006-11-11 03:33:09
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answered by Debra D 7
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