will i ever find the perfect guy who loves me for who i am? where is he? until when i should wait?
2006-11-11 03:25:37 · 26 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are never going to find a PERFECT mate. Just one that is best suited for you..........
Good luck!
2006-11-11 03:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are no perfect people...however, yes...it's VERY likely you will meet guys throughout your life who will care about you for the person you are (flaws and all)...
Where are they? Who know? I don't have a crystal ball that can tell me that.
How long should you wait? Why are you waiting at all? Get out there and live and enjoy life as a single person...don't waste a minute of it simply because you don't have a partner...
Besides, no one is going to come knocking on your door, if they don't know you exist...the best way to be found by someone, is be where they can find you...out there in the real world, or visible online...
2006-11-11 11:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes there will be a guy out there for you. and No he is not going to be perfect. He can be anywhere, but at the meantime, get prepared. don't just sit there all day waiting for him to show up. ask yourself once you have found him, what will you do? learn to cook, learn to clean, learn to have a career. be prepared so that once he is here, everything will fall in its place. if you are not prepared, theres no point in showing you the perfect guy bc it won't work. so. love yourself, use the time to enjoy being single, use the time to become that perfect girlfriend your perfect boyfriend is waiting for! good luck.
2006-11-11 11:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a commited relationship between 22 to 24 years of age.
Till then get as much education as you can. Work, do a wee bit of traveling too see friends, family, go skiing, and enjoy life at your age.
As you meet boys along the way have the expectation that they compliment who you are and not make you who you are and have fun... during this time you will mature up grow into a well rounded person.
2006-11-11 11:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish it for you.How long should you wait ?until he comes.I have yet to find the mans rib I'm from and I am in my 50"s.I some times can't believe there isn't a true love out here for me,but I have accepted the fact and I am pretty happy with the love of my family,what's not for me I have to accept,but I hope you and everyone else finds the person who helps them feel complete.
2006-11-11 11:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of couse you'll find him sweetiee.
*..Wait for the boy who will make an ordinary moment seem magical, the kinda boy who brings out the best in you and makes you wanna be a better person. wait for the boy who will be your best friend, who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what the circumstances. wait for the boy who makes you smile like no one else, and when he smiles, you know he needs you. wait for the boy who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats and have no make-up on, but appreciates it when you get dolled up for him...and most of all, wait for the boy who will put you at the center of his universe, because that's where you belong ..*
he'll come to you, i promise.
Good luck !
2006-11-11 11:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by xPEANUTx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you the truth, the longer you wait and look for him, the longer it will take for him to find you. I was searching forever for mine and was finding losers and obsessive people who wouldn't leave me alone. When I finally decided that I didn't care if I had a man in my life and that I didn't need one to complete me, that's when I found my husband. We met and have been inseparable since the first day that we met and have three beautiful kids and a wonderful marriage.
Good luck to you!
2006-11-11 11:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by acehernandez2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistics say people are only compatible with one person out of fifty!!! So keep searching. Don't waste time on the wrong people. Let the guy impress you instead of you trying to impress him. And remember no relationship or person is perfect, you just have to figure out what you are willing to deal with.
2006-11-11 11:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The harder you look the harder it is to find him. I had given up a year ago. I wasn't looking for anything special, just the occasional roll in the hay. I was so afraid of being hurt again. Almost 6 months ago I met my dream man. I've never met anyone like him and he loves me for me. He even loves my stretch marks AND my children. Just be patientand don't give up hope. Your time will come.
2006-11-11 11:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some day you'll meet the perfect guy, you may meet a lot of people who you think are that guy before you actually do, but when you meet the real thing you'll know for sure. just be patient and always wear a smile when you walk.
2006-11-11 11:30:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are waiting for a "perfect guy" you will never find him. Maybe if you make a list of what traits are essential for him to have and what things don't matter it will help you to be realistic in your choices.
2006-11-11 11:29:15 · answer #11 · answered by rivkadacat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋