I have a really good friend..he used to date of my of friends who cheated on him the entire time and broke his heart. I'm not worried about dating one of my friend's exes because her and I aren't really even friends anymore. He's not over her yet. It's been a year. For the last 6 months, we talk almost everyday via text messaging..sometimes for hours. We hang out alot, laugh all the time, everytime we go out to eat, he pays for me even though I tell him not to. Everyone who knows us keeps asking us if we are together, and I'm always the one who says we are just friends b/c they ask me. Last week we ended up txting some pretty spicy stuff and didn't talk for 3 days after that. I love him to death and want more with him but he's said many times that he doesn't want a g/f when referring to other chicks. Last nite, he told me I needed to get a boyfriend to pay for my dinner - out with 10 others - and I asked if he was offering and he handed me the cash. But no kisses..nothing. Help
2006-11-11 03:21:16 · 7 answers · asked by skybelle24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may be getting anxious that he likes you and scared about getting burned again. Its been a year and he seems to be pushing away from you since the spicy notes, since I bet his buddies are asking him the same about you two. He may be likeing you as welll since he sent htose notes and again scared a little. I would continue to talk to him like nothings changed. Maybe you need to heat things up a little to show him that you are sincere about him and maybe have a little more indepth talk. Dont give up!
2006-11-11 03:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he's just not that into you romantically. It usually happens like that when women "wait" for some guy to get over his broken heart. When he's over his heartbreak, he'll be ready to go out and meet new girls who don't know how he suffered, and start fresh.
He has told you a number of times that he doesn't want a girlfriend. He said you need a boyfriend. He said he's not over his past. I think you should start listening.
2006-11-11 11:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have a great friend, do you think sleeping with him is really the best thing to do. Have you told him you are interested in him for more than friends? I would try that first, maybe you can be the aggressive one and see how he reacts.
2006-11-11 11:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for him,,you have feelings for him and looks like he does for you, give it a try,it could be a good thing.
2006-11-11 11:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE HE EXPECTS MORE FROM HIS GOOD FRIEND, AND SENSE HE,S NOT GETTING IT, HE,S DECIDED TO PULL AWAY, WHAT DO YOU WANT, THAT'S WHATS IMPORTANT
2006-11-11 11:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy needs some time. don't rush him otherwise u might lose him forever.be patient.
2006-11-11 11:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by zubi z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to be with you, he will be with you. and he will make it official and known that he is your bf. if not, then hes just not into you. its not personal.
2006-11-11 11:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by happybeanstalk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋