Is it safe???

Question

Me and my boyfriend want to have sex for the first time with each other. We;'ve only been dating a month.When we have sex I want it to be a pleasurable time. I'm not a virgin either. I think he is the right one and I really love him.If were to have unprotected sex then would it be a chance that I would get pregnant fatser than if i used a condom. And we do want to have a kid together but I'm stressed so wat should I do, and he wants it to hapen soon. I dont know wat to do because I think it's too early but he doesn't

Answer 1

First of all, make sure this is the right time to have sex. You have only been dating for a month, so why not do "other things" and work up to sex. If your are adamant about screwing then maybe the BOTH of you should go to a family planning/clinic and check out the different types of birth control. While your there you could both get screened for STD's and feel relieved to actually have sex without a condom. Protect yourself and your body. Like you said you don't want to get pregnant, so use protection!

Answer 2

Get your a*ss on the pill cause it won't be him having no baby girl it is gonna be you. You 2 have only been dating 1 month, How old are you, you must be young to be asking a dumb question. This guy is an idiot. He does not know you well enough to say hey spread you legs and lets make a kid. No problem, Of course you will get pregnant if you do not use some protection. GOD what about the other diseases you will get from unprotected sex DUH, you need to get a clue, wake up and pull your head out.

Answer 3

If you do not feel you are ready for a child and this is the first time the two of you have had sex with each other I would wait. There is not rush. If you have only been dating 1 month how do you know you want a child with this man???? You dont even know everything about him yet. And yes unprotected sex is worse than no protection!!!

Answer 4

Hello! USE A CONDOM! I think you should wait untl you have dated more than a month. Have either of you been tested for AIDS, ot any other SEXUAL DISEASE? What is his backgroung, do you even know? I mean like what things run in his family. I mean health wise. What kind of things could be wrong with your baby if you 2 have one from not using a condom. If you are clean how do you know he is disease free, make sure cause you don't want to catch anything. Again, USE A CONDOM!

Answer 5

hi, i dont think you should have a kid yet, youve only been dating himfor less than a year. some people whove known each other forever have a kid and boom its different. my friend and her bf got pregnant after 8 mos of unprotected sex. when she gave birth he changed like ..she didnt know him anymore. take time to know him first..
and yes you will have more chances of getting pregnant if you dont wear a condom.

Answer 6

Honestly, one month is not long enough to know someone well enough to even think about having unprotected sex with them, let alone having a baby. think of yourself and your body first. Regarless of how much I was in love with a girl I would never stoop to that low level. I will tell you this, if you do sleep with him and you do get pregnant, I can almost guarantee you he will not stick around.

Answer 7

age helps w/ this 2...but if hes the right 1...then do it

Answer 8

1)too soon to have a kid
2)use condoms
3)have sex and enjoy

Answer 9

it depends but you should use protection because you should wait depending on how old you are.and if you think you can support a child go ahead

Answer 10

I vote with Violet Pearl. Get married before you have children. This guy'll probably do you and you never see him again.