I was so bad in health 8years before. At that time I saw a girl. I realy like her but I don't know that is love. But I had friendship with her brother. Then she called me brother. 7years she called me brother. But she don't know any thing that is I love her. But one day I saw her in a market she saw me that is I was seeing her. Then she played as she loves me and make me to express my love then I did indirectly. After that his brother mailed me " I shamed because of your friendship" Now I am very bad boy. I want response from some body. All hate me including my self. I want to leave from this thoughts.
2006-11-11 02:51:33 · 13 answers · asked by Karthick N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be calm. you did nothng wrong.
approach the brother, even if he hate you or wanted to punch you.. dnt be afraid you are innocent...
then explain to him how you had kept it for 7 years... all the feeling you want for her sister, but still you respected her so you rather accept being a brother instead of courting her.
tell him the truth, it will set you free. dont hate yourself... it will only get worst.
then if youre brave enough, tell it to her, how much you feel, ts more than a brother relationship, that how you wish it was love for both of you... maybe she'll tell you something too...
but if things get worst, or the are too aggressive to be approach..then just try hard to avoid them, dont get near them and have other friends know how you feel and what is you situation, at least someone knew your problem. and by chance, maybe they could be the one to tell it to her brother instead of you.
2006-11-11 03:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by chikqie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
STOP feeling badly first. You didn't do anything wrong. They should be ashamed for making you feel so hurt and worried.
Now is the time to move on....You need to date other girls/ women and you WILL get over her.
Also..find a new friend...her brother is obviously not the real deal. True friends are few and far between...but they are out there!
2006-11-11 10:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad about yourself. you did nothing wrong. you loved someone whole heartedly and you deserve better. if this relationship doesn't work out then find a new one. do not mistreat yourself by sticking in a relationship that does no good to you.
as for your friend (the girl's brother); I say you forge him too.. what kind of friend is he? he should be happy that you loved his brother.. if he doesn't appreciate you then why should you?
put your foot down on this and forget the two of them.
2006-11-11 10:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by caterpillar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry to hear about your story. and No, it is not your fault. you cannot help who you love and your "friend" should understand if he is really your friend. If the girl likes you and you like her, then I don't think there is anything wrong with that. All good relationship begins in friendship. and ask your friend that if he thinks you are a good person, if he says yes, then ask him "wouldn't you want a good boy with your sister?"
Good luck
2006-11-11 10:57:30 · answer #4 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These things are bound to happen when u act carelessly.. There's no way u r going to change what's happened. So forget everything and move on with ur life. And remember never again in ur life to propose to your friend's sister, without his knowledge.
2006-11-11 10:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by skr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistake can be made by anyone. But reading all this I don't feel that the mistake is yours. So, pls overcome from this misunderstanding.
2006-11-11 11:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Fariha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck is wrong with ur friend im totally on ur team i dont think u've done anything wrong i would care if my little brother was dating my friend (sure it would be awkwaard) but i dont think u did anything wrong
2006-11-11 10:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by : ] be happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong,stop hating yourself and learn there is someone out there for you
2006-11-11 10:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like to play games just so they wont get hurt. so occupy yourself with someone else.
2006-11-11 10:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start over.
2006-11-11 10:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋