I am sorry women just don't understand( or maybe they say something like oh that is so sweet). That is not the answer I am looking for! Here is the thing I have been with my only gf for 4 years now and really love her. But man temptation is high and i think i could get another girl pretty damn easily. what really does not help the situation is my gf pressures me alot about marriage and how it would break her heart if i left her or cheated on her. also she has been with other guys in the past and that is not cool! not fair!!
2006-11-11 02:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by da-chi-town-man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how you feel. I was in your shoes and I cheated on my gf. Later she found out about it and that destroyed our relationship. If you want to keep her you only have once choice, maybe two. Do your best to put the thoughts of other girls out of your head. Only think of all the things you love about your gf and be very grateful for her and the temptations will go away. Don't talk to other girls if that is what it takes. The only other option maybe for you and her to take a break and you go sow your wild oats, but promise that you will come back to her. If I had done that i'm sure i'd still be with my girl. Best of luck, I hope it works out for you.
2006-11-11 02:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by emperor_onion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you said that this was open to men only however not all girls will just say cute things.
While I will admit that it is admirable that you have only been with your girlfriend but like you said SHE has been with others and if it bothers you now it will only increase unless you get out and test the waters.. Hey maybe there is something out there for you to learn.. Maybe take a break from each other and test those uncharted waters.. BUT be SAFE and use a condom even IF she says she's on the pill.. ALWAYS play it safe.. Would hate to hear that your first dip into water lead to an unwanted pregnancy or worse a disease..
If this is eating at you now believe me it will not get easier.. My friend has only been with the guy she is with now and he has been with many.. she is always wondering what it would be like.. I wouldn't be surprised it she went elsewhere to make sure she is getting as good as what is out there..
Use your judgement.. can you live life with this girl and never be with someone else?
Are you wanting to marry this girl?
Think of all options first then go with your gut!
sorry to intrude on a guy thing.. this is just my opinion..
Good luck
2006-11-11 02:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by fishin_girl72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you.If your younger than 25 dont worry about the number of partners.The number may change with more time passing.Second if you are under age 25 you should wait alot longer to get married because of the temptation you are having.If the temptation is getting to you now and you are thinking of other girls then its very likely that your feelings for this girl may change.If your over 25 then maybe you need to explore whats out there a little more but don't cheat on the girls you get to know because one of them could be a future wife.
2006-11-11 02:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open forums, sorry...anyone can reply.
Sure it's okay to have only one sexual partner in life...it's okay to have none or 100...it's YOUR business...however if you're going to have others, then be free (not attached to anyone) to do so...cheating isn't okay, so break up with your girl and go sow some wild oats if that's what you feel the desire to do...
Just be careful and use protection...you don't want (hopefuly) any "Juniors" running around because of you, nor do you want to acquire a disease you cannot get rid of...
Be responsbile...be honest...have fun!
2006-11-11 02:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she has hasn't cheated on you, her being with other guys has nothing to do with you. You cant hold her responsible for you not being with other women in the past. That was your decision, so whats not to be fair about?
2006-11-11 02:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The middle difficulty is LOVE no longer gender, nevertheless I do believe the bible prohibits sodomy which traditionally is anal intercourse. It under no circumstances condemned all same gender affections. In Romans a million the prohibition of anal intercourse replaced into prolonged to women folk people having it with adult males. As to how an prolonged way you could flow in showing affections, you ought to wish and meditate on it. God won't set an identical obstacles for you as he could for somebody else. i could say with a non sexual considerable different nevertheless, regardless of the main conservative interpretations it could in elementary terms limit sexual intercourse, yet loving somebody and having a existence considerable different of an identical gender is under no circumstances morally incorrect in itself. in actuality, you could form a covenant in love as Jonathon and David did in I Sam 18.
2016-12-14 05:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to understand that if you want someone else just to see what it would be like then you have not grown up yet. the feeling of physical sex is much the same no matter who you are with. its the woman inside that you fall in love with. she is the one you love even when she is a pain. grow up and stay home.
2006-11-11 02:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by jms043 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u started going out with her since the beginning u accepted her the way she was so now that everything is going fine i don`t think u shoulk look 4 someone else.
2006-11-11 02:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot get a virgin. but if she is clean and clear, disease wise i mean and you are both mentally and physically compatible go ahead and marry her. one is good enough i have been faithful to one its 41st year today. good luck to you.
2006-11-11 02:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It beats getting all kinds of diseases!
2006-11-11 02:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋