how do i get a girlfriend?

Answer 1

uhhhhh lets see be yourself do the moves and gettin gf will take some time and plus boost your self confidence up too

Answer 2

Be yourself, but don't leave it to chance .. you have to take an active role in this .. the women are'nt going to be come to you ...you have to go to them.

Find places/events where it's easy to meet the opposite sex, and startup a conversation.


Flirt, keep it light-hearted, show interest, follow up. Most of all, when you get the right person/response, be clear about her recognising you would like to see her again (after meeting her).

Get her details,whatever you need, in a low-key way (but it has to be done) to ensure you can make arrangements to see her again. Then do so. Make it happen.

Sometimes it's a numbers game.. there will be people you like who don't respond, but also be prepared to recognise those who do show interest. Follow through on that too. Women have a canny knack of knowing which relationships are going to work.

Hope it goes well.

Answer 3

Your more likely to meet someone with similar interests if u join a group that interests u. Evening class on whatever your hobbies are for example. That would give u a starting point to begin a relaxed conversation. Try friendship first to build your social circle. Let things develop naturally. Don't try too hard it acts as a repellent exactly the opposite of what u want.

Answer 4

You should let her know you like her.
Put on great-smelling aftershave or cologne. Research the best-selling ones at department stores. A good scent really turns a woman on.
Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails clean and neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces.
Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports news. Women love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in every aspect. Or just actually be well-educated.
Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered and feel important.
Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man.
Most importantly, offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being.
Don't annoy you girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but unless you have something to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "i <3 u".
Don't be unsubtle. Yet it is important not to be so obtuse as to be unreadable.
Do romantic things for her, like slow dances, holding hands, giving her flowers and candy, and hugs.
Don't be afraid to diplay your affection in public.
DO NOT push her to have sex with you if she doesn't want to.
Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule

Answer 5

The most important thing is to be yourself cause their are some girls who like u the way u are.!
2) talk in a calm and romantic voice.
3) have a tic tac!
4) dress nicely.
5) be nice.
6) look 4 a girl thats ur type, you know someone who has something in common with u.
7) think before u talk.

Answer 6

dont be so desperate. you're obviously just after any girl for the sake of having a girlfriend, and if one girl turns you down i bet you're the sort of bloke who comes on to her mate instead. there's nothing attractive about desperation or thinking you're only being chatted up cos you're female, not because there's actually anything special about you. Find a girl you REALLY like and make an effort with her, dont just attack anything with a pulse

Answer 7

Talk to people. A lot. Get to know them well, show interest, and they might just get to know you, too.

As for previous comments about going down the pub, don't bother; you want a girlfriend, not a drunken s**t. Try the library.

Answer 8

1) Join a singles club
2) Participate in a hobby/social activity that you are interested in
3) Organise a social gathering with your friends. Get your friends to bring along friends. That way, you can expand your social circle.
4) Join a professional matchmaking agency
5) Join online matchmaking websites (e.g: www.match.com)

Answer 9

Depends on what you want from a girlfriend. Do you want someone to love just because...get a dog they are more loyal.

Answer 10

go clubbing, meet women, make ur life interesting, get a good job, or good grades, be easy going, have an open body language DO NOT TALK ABOUT THESE THIGNS ON A FIRST DATE:
-old gfs
-broken bones
-parents walking in on you
-politics
-money
-don't get drunk
-don't talk about drunken experiences
LISTEN to her....
keep good eye contact
don't pressure her to sleep with you

follow this and u will be fine

Answer 11

Try spray painting your genitals flourescence green, and running around naked, save for a pair of underpants on your head. Women love that!