When you forgave did it have anything to do with your faith, or your beliefs of how you should be because of church. Or did you just forgive because it was the right thing for you. Just wondering
2006-11-11 02:07:36 · 12 answers · asked by fryedaddy 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I can't mention what happen, but sometimes some people are unforgivable and they would never be worthy of being forgiven by me never, I don't dwell in it but I will never forget it ever,
Other than that it's just my common practice to forgive and forget
2006-11-11 02:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by man of ape 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing that ever happened to me was some childless Fa Gg ot lied to authorities about something I did that was the initiating factor in my parental rights ultimately being taken away from me and my only son.
Included in the mess was social services lying and destroying and a judge voilating 5 times the laws of the state... she was supposed to rule and find justice with.
I was charged with a crime where no crime existed. I challenged the district attorenys office this way:
" F**K YOU, NOT GUILTY, JURY TRIAL, HURRY UP PUNK"!
It never went to court because they were unable to make a case.
It got dismissed without predjudice and they never reindibted because there was never a crime and no harm ever suffered my son except for whatr the system di ripping him off of his father.
All in all I lost my rights to my son, but he will be 18 in a couple more years and I instead of following through with the carnal revenge i wanted, i accepted the path of fate and my failures, and to learn to listen to my instincts and forgave as the will of GOD.
I made a covenant with My GOD for the salvation of my son because his mother immediately after his birth became a violent alchoholic premiscuous drug addict, and i vowed to go into the gates of hell for my sons salvation and I made the mistake of not stating how many times I would do that, and have been ever since. (to kick ***)
God Has blessed me however with a great woman and another child, but God help any who f u c k with that!
I am too old to be robbed of my last child by vindictive mental - case women or men bent on screwing me now out of what I have the right to. No not ever again!
HELL IS "NOT" FOR CHILDREN.
What is even more sickening is history is repeating itself in the life of the mother of my last child and the same kind of s h i t cr ap is being done to her and her son.
Forgive?....Yes! Hold acccountable? ...
YES !
LET... it happen again.... NO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-11 10:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by foulweathercatcherman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was really not done too me, but it effected my life significantly. My Aunt was murdered and it took me many years to let myself forgive the man who did it. I had too because the hatred was eating me up inside. I tried to "force" myself to forgive because my religion told me I should for a long time, but I was not personally ready. Finally, I had to just look inside myself and and make it a personal decision based on what I could and could not live with and what I knew to be right within my heart as well as what I felt that my Aunt would have wanted me to do at that point. When I looked at it from THAT perspective it really all just came together and I felt good about the forgiveness. Now don't get me wrong, I still think he should be locked up forever for his crimes, but I forgive him.
I hope that helps you with your struggles at some point.
Thanks
2006-11-11 10:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lili 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing was my husband cheated on me and it took me about 10 years to let go of that. It had everything to do with my faith, I layed that problem at the feet of Jesus and it was like 1000lbs had been lifted off me. That's how I know if you have faith in Jesus things will work out for you!
2006-11-11 10:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by tracy211968 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arriving in highschool can be hard, coz your friends do ditch you! But anyways, there were these group of friends who would like to make people's live hell!! I just happened to be one of them!! So I said something about this girl that wasn't even worth bothering about, but her close friend made a huge fuss about it...it then ended out that friend whom i could 'trust' told this little secret to her sister, who was the close friend of the person i'd said something about!! The one girl who would make me feel better was working for both sides-helping me and helping her friends make my life hell!! So this some how got into a bigger problem and ended up at the two class bullies!! What was even worse was that in history class I sat right in front and they sat just behind me and that meant they could taunt me!! So it carried on that way for a while and I had no one to turn to!! These people were trying to turn the class against me and they succeeded!! What made it worse was that no one (the people who weren't turned against me) didn't seem to bother about my problem and hurt!! And my secrets always got to the class bullies, and they then ended up making this fake party and everyone was going, but I wasn't gullible enough to believe it!! But anywho, this carried on for a while...when it started settling down, the one chic expected me to say sorry to her close friend for the little thing I's said about her...but they didn't say anything in return, but I forgave them anyhow!! It was a huge massive crime for me to have any freedom of speech whilst others were allowed to say what they felt like saying!! But it's all stopped now and I'm good friends with the people who hated me!!
Sorry, i hope it's not too confusing!!
2006-11-11 10:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my Priest raping me was the worst thing someone has done to me. Either that or the physical abuse I endured from my stepfather for ten years. I have not forgiven either of them. I won't go near either of them, and I don't think about them too much. Neither one of them is sorry, so I won't forgive.
My High Priest violating me was not just a crime against me, but a crimes against Paganism in general, especially the males. That's unforgivable.
2006-11-11 10:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by Maria Isabel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My oldest daughter's father beat me for years and mentally abused me as well. I forgave him because it was the right thing to do and because I no longer wanted to allow him to have any control over me or my feelings.
2006-11-11 10:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by mortgagegirl101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i forgave someone who had done something when i was younger ...
they dont know i forgave them of course .. because i done it for me as well as them
infact i am not sure they even realised they needed forgiving
but anyway it is done now
and i have to say that since i made this conscious decision to do so , i have moved on amazingly in life
i forgave them because they were dying .. i did not want them to die with that upon them
2006-11-11 10:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had people lie to me, let me down, be rude to me, cuss at me, ridicule me, and more. I hope and pray that I was able to forgive all of them. It's not easy. When people do us wrong, the natural reaction is to seek revenge. We have to ask God for His grace and compassion when people sin against us.
2006-11-11 10:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by David S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father beat me as a child. I forgave him because it set me free from negative thoughts about him.
2006-11-11 10:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by illusions 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋