i have hurt this guy a lot and he was really intersted in me, insulted and said things and now he does not want to talk to me neither see my face even i f i call he does nort answer the call if i send sms he does not answer and i just cant forget him.It seems like i will die without him and i am in such a phase i dont what i am leaving for.It took me a long time to know that he is the one when i had already messed up my life totally and now i just cant think of life without him i know that i have to go on but its difficult i dont know what to do please help
2006-11-11 00:57:11 · 4 answers · asked by eme7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well why did you say all those mean things with out thinking about the consequenses,,duh,,most people dont like mean negative people
2006-11-11 01:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first you haven't ruined your life you've just took a wrong turn and of course those come with consequences. You can call and leave him a message and explain that your sorry and that you know what you did was wrong and that everyone makes mistakes and you hope he'll forgive you. Don't call to much that's not good. If you don't hear anything in a few days by a card and write your feelings in it and mail it to him. Hopefully one of these will work if nothing else maybe you could start over and be friends.Good luck
2006-11-11 09:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somtimes it is too late to take back the mean things we say. This may be one of them. Give it one more try. Send him a gift by UPS or Fedex, in it put a personal gift (something he likes) and a note from you telling him everything that you would on the phone. He will take in the Fedex/UPS box and open it. If you still don't hear from him, you are going to have to go on without him.
2006-11-11 09:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well call him (i know) but leave a voice mail on his phone a long one and tell him how u feel... and that ur sorry and want to work things out... if he really loved you or loves you he`ll see the sincerity and call u back even tho u hurt him he still if he ever REALLY did loves you!!! it`s a feeling that lasts forever. trust me i know even when that person hurts you alot u still love thm to death
2006-11-11 09:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by katherine f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋