look yesterday i went to a party but we where clebrating my friends 12 b-day but some of the girls starded acting like strippers one got on top of a boy on a bed and started to dance and it looked like porno the guy enjoyed it they were kissing and they looked like strippers i rather imagen that they were all killing each other but and i wanted to dance but that was just wronge !! all the girls were dancing around the same boy and kissing and stripping it was all regge spanish music i live in mexico now but i was born in texas help ayuda !!! do you think i sould dance like that to or not strip but dance right help adults !!! how can 11 and 12 year old kids do THAT ( but i dident )
2006-11-11 00:37:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the parents where down but they had the music so loud they dident hear i stayed an hour in the bathroom with the no light and i thought of study study study study study no love study study study i did not want to hear them say they where going to be strippers when they where big
2006-11-11 00:54:19 · update #1
they where also dancing tube but i went out on a walk and did not see them do that only a bit thats when i left ( and my other mexican friend Karen thought this was anoying and wierd so she went to play monoploy with the kids little bors and sisters while i was on a walk with a friend and the b-days girls mom telling her what they where doing i think she did not belive us
2006-11-11 00:57:49 · update #2
i told my mom
2006-11-11 00:59:17 · update #3
they also fail in school the girl that got on top of the gets so low grades but only the girls that danced
2006-11-11 01:06:03 · update #4
No don't do it it is very wrong
2006-11-11 00:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are two types of girls in the world, chica. Normal girls and psychotic losers. The behavior you are describing is what you classically see in a future psychotic loser. The real trouble starts once they discover drugs. These girls spend their lives as whores for evil men (drug dealers, felons, woman beaters and the like). Their behavior is specifically designed to advertise that fact. And they will soon be sucked into a world where they trade blowjobs for cocaine, crystal meth and worse.
You definitely don't want any of that. What you should be doing is getting as far away from those people as possible. Instead, make friends with girls who are obviously going to grow up to be normal women. In other words, that don't have bad habits, are focussed on having a happy life with healthy relationships with good men, at a reasonable age (18 to 21 is a reasonable age for sexual relationships.....11 and 12 most definitely is not).
Now, I'm not saying that dancing around like a stripper is wrong, nor is being sexual. But, in private, with one guy, who is a long-term love interest, at an age where you are an adult or very nearly....age 17+ at least. There is a BIG difference between that and being sucked into a depraved lifestyle like your friends obviously are. There is only misery and pain down that path.
2006-11-11 00:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, and where were all of the adults in this situation? A birthday party for a 12 year old with no adult supervision.. interesting.
Anyhoo, Texas girly, as someone more than twice your age, I'm going to give it to you straight - you do NOT want to imitate the behavior of those other girls at the party. At ANY age, the last thing you want to do is come off as a stripper. It is not a good image is all I'm saying. I don't know you of course, but I'm proud of you for seeing that those girls were behaving inappropriately and choosing not to copy their actions. Just because they felt they needed that sort of attention doesn't mean that that is cool to behave that way. It is natural to later question decisions you make in life, understand that that one was a good one so feel good about it.
2006-11-11 00:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Look Sweetheart, you did the right thing, the only thing I can say you should have done was leave immediately. You should have told your mother, they'll probably find out from someone anyhow then what. Your parents are going to want to know why you didn't tell them anyhow so....it's up to you. Then I would say, find another group of friends.
If I was your parent and I found out through someone else, that would be it until you were about forty years old. Then all hell would break loose on the parents that happen to own the house, the girl and the boy involved.
2006-11-11 00:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Another story about how why easy-as-pie-to-get internet porn has allowed kids to grow up way too fast.
Well at least you practiced what you believed - keep doing that and you'll be okay.
Good job on not letting the crowd make you do stuff you didn't want to do. You might not become a stripper dancing to reggae spanish music, but you'll feel really good about yourself. I hope this ayuda made sense, little chica.
2006-11-11 00:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young for that. In most cases, the boys and girls don't know what they want, they are hoping that the other wants more, however, you never know how far it is going to go. Are you willing to go 'all of the way' with a boy? Because this type of activity will lead to it. Maybe not right away, however, possibly. Don't lower your self worth - you are better than that. And think about it...will you regret it later? Or, if things did go as far as they could, are you ready to be a mother?
2006-11-11 00:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all... take a deep breath. I almost passed out trying to read that. Obviously you were uncomfortable being there and seeing that. So, go with that feeling and don't put yourself in that situation again. How does a 12-yr. b-day party end up in a bedroom anyway? If it doesn't feel right to you, it's not right. Stick with friends who aren't afraid of some parental supervision. Parents aren't all bad and can even be a lot of fun. As you get older and start maturing you will be able to handle various situations as they arise.
2006-11-11 00:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by SUzyQ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I know I wasn't doing that when I was 12, or even 18! Good for you for not doing something that you didn't feel was right even though everyone else was!! I think you need to seriously think about finding different friends, others who think and act more like you. It can be hard, but you need to stick with what your head/heart tells you is right, and don't listen to people who try to convince you otherwise! Good luck, and tell your parents that they're doing a good job raising you!
2006-11-11 00:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can go to parties and have fun with out acting like a whore And just think if you don't act like that you can make it through high school with out being a pregnant tramp.. If they want to act like little hookers let them but you don't have to be like that just because your friends are.... Where were the adults when all this was going on.
2006-11-11 01:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to do that. You are way too young and need to find some new friends. They might be trouble and you don't want to be around when they get caught. BTW, where were the parents in all this?
2006-11-11 00:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Don't become a s l u t, it's not cool in the end. No one will trust u. I should kno, some girl who used to be my friend, she's a s l u t, and I don't even believe what she says.
2006-11-11 01:11:07 · answer #11 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋