i broke up with my ex bf, then a couple of days later i found out that he was seeing his ex again (before we broke up!!). I knew he loved her very much they where broken up 9 months before we met, and she cheated on him.
I want to know wheter i drove him to this, and what type of person does this sort of thing??? Did i do something wrong, yes i was very busy at the time, but i never lyed to him...
he says he is in love with her, they have only been going out for 2 weeks!!!
i feel really hurt and betrayed, he doesnt want to know me and when i talk to him he is al cold and uncarrying!!!
2006-11-11 00:30:46 · 14 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she the thing is, i broke up with him on wednesday, he was al hurt and upset and angry but he sad that if thats what is wanted, thats what i would get, then next monday, i find out that he has been with her for a week, so he was with her since monday, but we broke up on wedseday!!!! is he lying??? and about what???
2006-11-11 00:33:26 · update #1
it means he is both a jerk and very confused...time to move on....lots of fish in the sea
2006-11-11 00:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
please stop your whining of course you drove him back into her arms. You broke up with him. You should have just kept your Sancho on the side and let things play out but no you had to go and ruin a good thing now your sancho wants nothing to do with you its being on the outside that makes the sancho such a cool thing brought into the light of day ruins the whole thing. Face it girl you blew it. and you know it. it will be a while before you have it this good ever again. you had your cake and you were eating in too
oh well live and learn
2006-11-11 00:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its obvious he never lost his feelings for her.Its nothing you done.He wanted to return to this woman and rekindle their relationship.You say they've only been going out for two weeks and he loves her.Sweetie he never lost the love he had for her.Yes you feel really betrayed and hurt.You had grown to have feelings of your own for him.The only thing you can do now is give yourself time to get over him.Stay busy.Don't sit alone because this will only give you time to focus on your hurt.You don't want to do that right now.Do things that make feel happy.Stay away from alcohol and drugs though.Good Luck.Your find some one.
2006-11-11 00:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by star_utsf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He saw it coming, for some unknown reason women seem to think men are stupid...were NOT....I'm curious why you would care? Didn't you break up with him? What you need to understand is women do the same thing and its called the relationship game you were probably unknowingly was giving him sign's that you were going to break up with him and his ex was an easy target downside for him is he's going back to someone who cheated on him that makes him a DA......
2006-11-11 00:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you didnt do anything to make him go back to his ex. He is obviously the type of person who wants to be cheated on. She did it once she will do it again. So, try to get over him by keeping yourself busy. you can do better than a liar and a cheat. Him and her are made for each other because they both cheat...Good luck with your next one.
2006-11-11 00:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got involved with a guy, who was on the rebound. He obviously has spoken to you about her and you heard what he said, but you really didn't listen. This had nothing to do with you.
You were at the wrong place at the wrong time. Wash it off. No great lose.
2006-11-11 00:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with such a pretty name, you seem a pretty, cute girl..dont care about him..what's done is done...if you love him..then you need to get over it..i know it's hard..but it's worthy..just think of your dignaty..and try to go out with other guys who really deserve a girl like you..cause the worst ones are the cheator ones...dont look behind and try to do some changes..like cuttin your hair or adding some colours to it..and try not to pay attention to him...
good luck ...
2006-11-11 00:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by spicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got pimped and got worked over.Break contact with him,it will hurt, but this guy is trying to increase his stable and will be pissed that your not in his stable anymore.Go on dates with guys for the next several weeks and dont talk to him at all
2006-11-11 00:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by kindaworried 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, you were his rebound, he hasn't been in love with her for 2 weeks, he's been in love with her all along. Sorry.
2006-11-11 00:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Princess ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just can't let hr go. just forget about him. if u 2 ever got back 2gether, u'd be unable 2 trust him anyway.
2006-11-11 00:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by ♥aɳgel♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋