Hey,
I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago, due to him and other gurls. I do want him back cuz we were together for like 6ish years on n off and there still are feelings there. I am getting over him, i seriously hate him. Everytime he rings my mates or nething. I no it's prob jealously, I am just so confused cuz I am falling in love with his best mate (which is also my best mate) I dnt want to make a move on him because I dnt wanna cause tension. Help
Should I fully get over my ex and then get with his mate in time????
2006-11-11 00:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No he dnt cheat just i got insecure with his girlie friends, although he had done once in the past.
2006-11-11 00:29:46 · update #1
If he's been cheating on you i'd throw him to the lions and get on with your life. If you're falling in love with his mate then you probably don't love your ex as much as you think.
2006-11-11 00:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by * 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my propose is this: tell your ex this "formerly I met you I fancied your best chum, i replaced into lonely and idea you've been a tremendous guy, i don't believe of we are perfect yet I nonetheless imagine a good number of you" then flow out with that different lad on saturday as planned and luxuriate in your self. the subsequent day call your ex and say this "I suddenly met {whateverhisnameis} very last nighttime and had an rather solid time - I recognize I nonetheless have solid emotions for him and desire me you and him can all stay friends savour your self and if you're honest no human being receives damage.
2016-11-29 00:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by schiavone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would try to get fully over your ex first, although do still keep in touch with his mate, it sounds promising. I hope his mate feels the same way about you. I think that after going out with your boyfriend for on and off for 6yrs that he is not the one for you.
2006-11-11 00:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by patsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fully get over ur ex to make sure that this is not a rebound thing then make a move on ur best mate
2006-11-11 00:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by lozzi_pop22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you answered your own question first get over your ex than go out with others . If your not fully over your ex yet it's going to get more confusing, and the worst feeling in this world is confusion.
2006-11-11 00:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tellie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should get over your ex and stay well clear of your best mate. It wont work. Keep him as a mate and go look elsewhere for another b/f. Trust me im talking from experience here.
Hurt it will cause if you go the other way.
2006-11-11 00:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Scatty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you forget both of them and enroll in a Spelling Course or buy a dictionary? This would improve the quality of your life and you might even meet a nice new partner at a Spelling Bee?
2006-11-11 00:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can always get over someone but good friends are hard to come buy. so make sure you want to cross the friendship line cuz once you do and if things don't work out. most of the time the friendship that you once had is gone cuz you crossed that line and it sucks to loose someone like that trust me i know
2006-11-11 00:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NEITHER!! Just try to be friends and find a new man. If you split up their friendship and then break up with the other dude you've now shattered three relationships. You said you don't want to cause tension so don't and just be friends.
2006-11-11 00:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Hendo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on and off over 6 years take on his mate be happy
2006-11-11 00:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋