How would you come to terms with it ? Knowing now that he was sexually abused as a kid and now he is a born again Christian, how can I accept that fact that he was a bonafide pig ? But he is soo handsome and charming.....ARGHHHHHHHH What can you do (besides breaking up)? PS We have no stds
2006-11-11 00:08:31 · 8 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can I stop tha comparison game with all those othe rwomen and myself ?
2006-11-11 00:09:41 · update #1
what's in the past is the past as long as he doesn't have any std's then your ok.He wouldn't be with you if he didn't like you so get over it or you will lose him
2006-11-11 00:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by cowboys4lee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is born again so he's not the same person he was before. He wants to be with you and there are no STDs and you like him right?! What's the issue? I'll tell you, there isn't one. The way you need to come to terms with it is this classic quote, that I'm gonna hammer, from Al Pacino is the Devil's Advocate, "Guilt (suspicion in your case) is like a bag of bricks, all you gotta down is set 'em down and walk away." Comprende' ?! He's trying to be good and steer his life in a good direction now. Don't turn him away now besides, 2500 ?! If old boy ain't pushing the envelope a little with that number you can probably learn some REAL fun stuff with him. Just let it be.
2006-11-11 00:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Hendo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, remember that you, too, have a past. Neither he nor you can change your past. If he is a born again Christian and those are no longer his ways, accept it for what it is. He had sex with a lot of people, but as long as he is safe and has not contracted any STD's, as you have said, and you like or love him for who he is, you will be able to see past his past.
There is no need to compare yourself to these other women. He is with you for a reason. It sounds like for most of those women, it was just sex. Making love is something totally different. There is no need to be concerned. Just be sure of who you are and what you want concerning sex and your relationship and you will be fine.
2006-11-11 00:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever any theory how absurd it particularly is to think of of those figures he gave you? he's claiming to have had intercourse with 192 women folk a year, one million.9 according to day. it particularly is ridiculous. i grew to become into stationed as a youthful guy in a rustic the place intercourse grew to become into quite obtainable, and that i grew to become into regularly sexual. I had intercourse with precisely 40 teenager elderly women approximately my age. yet that grew to become into over a 2-year era while i grew to become into very youthful. I figured that i grew to become into performing some greater desirable than one and a nil.5 new women according to month, with a slow lady on the part, and that grew to become into so undesirable that it is the 1st time I even have ever advised it to anyone. in case your guy is claiming that parent, he's worse than a lech, he's a liar and doubtless purely attempting to electrify you with some myth that he entertains. It can't be actual. very few prostitutes sustain that parent for brand spanking new encounters. Even they take a fabulous style of time without work.
2016-10-03 12:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by wardwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave those two zeroes off of that 2,500 figure and I'll believe it.
2006-11-11 00:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has been with that many women, he probably has some disease that you don't want! or it may be too late.
2006-11-11 00:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him packing! Simple as that.
2006-11-11 00:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
majic johnson did it and he still married
2006-11-11 00:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋