I'm not sure if I am imagining it or not, but I think there may be some kind of interest between me and a coworker. Last week I noticed that he was looking at me as I was walking nearby and, and today I needed to go into the office to do my end of day work routine... and knocked on the door and i could hear nikola and steve talking saying its her and opened the door for me. steve was sitting at his computer and after she left, he got up, and spoke to me, and said how busy he was tonight as he is the operator of the admin and ticketing office so we were chatting away, and he told me that he would be working till 130 am which is when i asked what he had planned for next week, he said nothing but solid work. So i tried to be subtle and asked him if he had much of a socialife and he said no, nothing but home! so i thought did i just say something i shouldnt have asked?? as I was about to leave he said u forgot something and he handed me my paperwork and our fingers touched .
2006-11-10 23:57:21 · 12 answers · asked by darzysguy 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I had two workplace romances a long time ago. Neither of them caused a problem when we broke up. How long have you worked with him? Do you sense even a hint of a vindictive streak? If so, keep away. If not, tread carefully and take it slowly.
2006-11-11 07:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by skip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if there are sparks between you 2- DON'T LET IT GO ON!!!!~ having an affair, or dating a co-worker is a big NO NO!
if you 2 go on great, that is a just a chance, but if yoiu 2 don't go on great, and have some bad vibes, you will find your self always avoiding him, and he you, and it will be VERY uncomfortable!
you can flirt all ya want, but NEVER date A co-worker!!!
2006-11-11 00:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by BubbleGumBoobs! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's interested and either very shy or just isn't very good with his social skills. Maybe you will have to be the one to ask if he wants to go for coffee.
2006-11-11 00:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally try not to **** where I eat, but dating co-workers can sometimes work out.
I don't know if he sounds interested based on the things you've described-- he could be, or you could be reading into his behavior.
2006-11-11 03:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all you. It seems as if you're building a mountain out of a moll hill. It sounded as if he wanted to keep you at arms length.
2006-11-14 23:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by manbearpig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him and neither are attached, I don't see what the problem is. Just be careful. Dating coworkers isn't always the best idea.
2006-11-11 01:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by njyecats 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you imagaination is making you look at normal situations and projecting what you want..
I dont think this guy is interested in you...find someone who is..
good luck
2006-11-11 00:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Winters child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exam your own feelings closely. It sounds to me like you are making more of it than it is.
2006-11-11 00:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by krissy4543 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
resist the temtation, its a risk you take.
unless it is well thought out, dont do it.
being friends is good enough.
2006-11-11 05:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can make going to work a living hell if something goes wrong.
2006-11-11 00:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋