my lsat Q "Is it good to marry moti girl..?" she is not really moti, but 5kg more than me.. will it be a good match... any way after marriage i van ask her to reduce that extra 5kg..
2006-11-10 23:47:52 · 15 answers · asked by deepu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
from your question it seems that you are right now not mature enough for marrieage. you dont understand its requierementand need or else you wont be worried about the girl being fat or thin. I suggest that you wait for a few more years, instead of rushing into a commitment without even knowing what it is all about. as then you will be very unhappy. please dont think of m as rude. I am giving this advice for your sake only.
also for future reference, whenever looking for a girl for marriage give first priority for her nature and charecter (example, do you two get along wel, will your parents and rest of your family like her and get along with her, will she be able to adjust with your lifestyle or not). if the girl doesnt have all these qualities then you wont be able to enjpy a happy life no matter how beautiful she is. but if the girl has all the above said qualities, then she will always keep you happy, and yes for your sake she will also try to look atractive to you as she will like the man she loves happy.
so my friend. think of how you and your partner can be happy together instead of thinking whether you 2 look good together to the world in general or not.
2006-11-12 18:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the difficulty is that with the help of marrying somebody, you have desperate to stay something of the existence with that lady. Your married existence is tremendously much double of what you have lived until finally now. A moti lady will become greater moti and you will consistently kepp staring at those slender ones. are you able to discover the money for to maintain staring at others for 30 -40 years. settle on your self. you have in basic terms possibility to get married and stay fortunately.
2016-11-23 15:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad question...why do u wanna marry her when u dont like moti girls....just imagine how she wud feel if she comes across this question....marry her if u love her...not just because she is beautiful or rich.....weight doesnt matter...one can shed those extra kilos any time of their life...i was 56 when i was 13yrs. no i m 22 and 46....so wt doesnt matter......chill.....dont hurt her....just love her....all the best/...happy married life
2006-11-12 08:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u at ur ideal weight?if no,then u cant say shes over-weight just bcoz she is 5kgs more than u.u try to put in.but if shes weighing 5kgs more than her ideal wght,then ask her to knock off those extra kilos before marriage as it will be harder after that..
2006-11-11 00:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isnt a question that a guy asks......who are you ?
Not even a single guy is worried that his chick is either slim, fat or skinny. The bottom line is she has to be good looking from top to bottom, presentable, lovely (lively) and no nagging!!
2006-11-11 00:01:03 · answer #5 · answered by grooovish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you love her
does it matter
you can ask her to do anything, but doesn't mean she will
can you love her, and live with her, if she never loses that extra 5kg
can you love her, and live with her, if she gains another 5kg
2006-11-11 00:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if due to some reason you become Fat tomorrow? See whether she is capable to be your perfect match or not. Weight can always be checked.
2006-11-11 01:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Upal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dekho insaan ko dilse pasand karo naki uske appearence tumne kaha hai tum shadi ke baad usko weight lose karne ko kahoge i m sure woh tumhari baat manegi dost sirf motape ke liye shadi nahi karna galat hai dekhna woh zaroor weight loose karenge agar usko tumhara encouragement mila tuh have a great day frd tc byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
2006-11-11 00:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
by the way whats her weight. if it is ONLY 45 kg then she will be worrying.
2006-11-10 23:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by anitha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love her for who she is, then don't marry her...you shouldn't be worried about her weight if you really love her.
2006-11-11 01:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋