Hey people...there is dis gal who is attracted to me in university...i know she is she has made it obvious n her friends told me so too..well we neva used to speak before n lately we started saying HI n thats it..i tried many times to talk to her but could neva coz she's busy wen i'm free n vice versa...i'm not in love wid her but i dont tink being friends wud have been bad...they real question is this de other day..she was walking down with 3 of her friends n de moment i told her HI i passed by i heard them laughing my bak was towards them tough...well after dat day i started ignorin her..coz it was kind of too much..now i'm not sure if all of them laughed and not her..i dont know but i dint like it..i've been ignorin her...n she keeps lookin at me wit those curious eyes..also de other day she waved at me from afar..n i ignored her by turning my face..she noticed it!!am i doin de right or wrong? I DON"T LOVE HER (LEAVE THE SPELLING ERRORS!)SHE"S NOT BEAUTIFUL SHE"S FAT
I dont care abt a relationship wid her just wanna knw if its right or wrong
2006-11-10 23:42:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her alone. If you wanted to be her friend, you would talk about her nicely and not call her "not beautiful" and "fat".
2006-11-10 23:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if your right or wrong but do you know what it was she and her friends were laughing at? You don't have to luv her but i am under the impression that you like her some what and if you wanna be friends with her thats cool too no one said if you talk to her you have to marry her. I do on the other hand think that you were just a little messed up for flying of the handl and throwing a baby fit about girls laughing when you don't know whats going on. If she and her friends were talking about you it couldn't have been bad if she has the hots for you is it posible that you were looking yummy that day, maybe she wanted to ask you to chill and her friends were trying to help her. For you to dogg her out like that and she just saying what up from afar thats jaked up luv. As far and you saying "she's not beutiful she's fat" don't be so shallow babe. If you don't like her like that just tell her but she could be a cool friend and if you do stop fruntin and go for it.
2006-11-11 00:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by 女性ウルバリン 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spelling and style of expressions tells everything about your personality and nature.
Now, just try to contact a newcomer in the field of direction at Bollywood. Probably your story could give a Bollywood masala film for the society and you become a celebrity overnight.
Good luck.
2006-11-11 00:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fisrt, you don't know why they laughed. If it bothers you, ask her what they were talking about and if it was you , then tell her that it bothered you. Second, don't end a friendship on this. And just because she's fat, doesn't make her ugly. It's wrong to end the friendship because of this, and it's wrong to not want her because shes "fat". Don't be so shallow, she has feelings too!
2006-11-10 23:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly learn to type correct english. You are a University and spell like a 6 year old
2006-11-11 00:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by nine_ball_tattoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not interested because she is quote unquote FAT. Sounds like she has some nice features about her that you like. Example, she is nice, funny, excellent conversationalist, easy to get along, and very loving and REALLY LIKES YOU!!... that is saying alot from a little you have told us. Maybe you need to ask her out and just see how it goes. Never know dude... she might be the ONE !!!.... GL.... at the very least, be friends.
2006-11-11 00:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by ludwigkicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your going to a University, do you work there or? I can't figure out what the heck your saying and think, if your going to a University why don't you take some English courses, some writing courses and then come back and try again?
2006-11-10 23:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I get what your saying... I think its kind of in the grey area, cause you don't know if she laughed with her friends but she could have chastised her friends for laughing. I think you should just go with the flow. If she says again, say hi back, but lessen the convo with her till your sure of whats going on, after all, you gotta look out for your self.
2006-11-10 23:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG! u don't know the details of what was goin on b4 she spoke to u... and after what u just said at the end of ur paragraph ur also insensitive! She's better off not havin u as a friend
2006-11-10 23:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. What does her being overweight have anything to do with the fact? (I was sympathizing with you until I read your CAPS). If that's your attitude, leave the girl be. She doesn't need to be hanging around people who think she's fat and ugly.
2006-11-10 23:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by *Jessy* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋