i used to have fun sex, but now it's plain old boring...
but now we don't have any sex. im thinking of breaking up with my partner..or should i try something else in the bedroom?
2006-11-10 23:23:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should find someone new if you are board
2006-11-10 23:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First and foremost is communication! Don't be afraid to tell your partner what you like and want in all aspects of your relationship. Especially in the bedroom. Just be ready and willing to do the same in return. Spice it up a bit or surprise your partner with something fun, sexy and satisfying that both of you can share. If all else fails call me! Ha Ha! Just funnin' with you! Good luck and don't give up until you talk it thru.
2006-11-11 07:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ibeeware 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the sex is no good spice it up. There are so many ways to make sex fun again. Have you tried toys or maybe some bondage? Or watch some porn and imitate what you watch. If your partner isn't willing to try new things you should definutely move on. If he/she is willing than let your imagination run wild. Ask him/her what their favorite fantasy is and role play. Gosh there's so many things you could try.
2006-11-11 07:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not bored with the sex, you are bored with the partner...
You could go through a lot of partners this way...
Try watching some porn with him over a few drinks...
2006-11-11 07:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That all depends. Do you love and cherish your partner? If so you owe it to him/her to try to spice things up and try new things. If you're just with this person for sex and you don't care about them, you can move on. But be careful. Things will inevitably get old with the next person as well.
2006-11-11 07:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
experiament, always try new things to stop sex from getting boring..if u feel that way now it will happen in your next relationship too and so forth you cant just keep breaking up with people.breaking up cause the sex is boring is no excuse!!!
2006-11-11 07:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Roleplay. S&M can be pretty hot... and I know I'm a huge perv. Toys are good. Watch porn beforehand, if you're into that stuff. Look for specific ways online and in Cosmo. They have tons of ideas.
Don't dump your partner for that. Sex can be improved, so you have to at least try it first.
2006-11-11 07:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by ....... 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love your partner not for sex only..
2006-11-11 07:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
being a couple is more than sex...sex is an enhancment ...if without sex you find this guy boring I think you both should move on ! good luck
2006-11-11 07:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't try to find satifection in sex, it will never be satisfying, learn to Love your parntner for other reason than just sex. make your lives exciting not sex.
2006-11-11 07:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love him,try to talk to him and tell him about what are you feeling and try new stuff (not just in the bedroom)...
2006-11-11 07:29:50 · answer #11 · answered by Cristina A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋