how to protect yourself against falling in love?

Question

i know some people are stronger in matter of love. what makes them not falling...

Answer 1

don't meet anyone from the opposite sex so you won't fall in love
there is no way of stopping yourself if it's going to happen just go with the flow

Answer 2

To protect yourself against something, you must fear it or hate it.

So, your mind and body has to be focused on something else besides romance and relationships. Put the blinders on. Don't look at beauty. Don't listen to sweet-talk and flattery. Only give negative opinions about romantic relationships.

Get a hobby that you really really love. Or, a career that you really really love. Or, have a philosphy which inspires hate for Love. My girlfriend constantly says that all men are "sorry" and that she really doesn't want to be bothered with a man.

Seriously, she says that almost everyday. Not because I'm a Player. She was saying that the first day we met, when we talked on the phone, and she'll probably tell me that later today. (I didn't call her at all yesterday so she'll be fussin.) It's all good though as long as she hates all of the other guys too. (smiles)

Maybe you would like to consider her ways. But I would recommend that you think with your head sometimes rather than your heart all of the time. Think hard about what you really want in a relationship and in a partner. When you meet someone... or if you meet someone that you like, judge them according to what your wants and needs a partner - and in a relationship..

You must also make them prove their worth and their love. What are they willing to do for you? Not money and gifts. But how do they express their love? How do they show they care? And remember, that your attitude will inspire them. So, their attitude can sometime be a reflection of yours. Be assertive, treat that person right, and don't let him walk all over you.

Brother DzL (AsP)
"The Player's Lifestyle"

Answer 3

It gets better with time there more experience you have and the more you have been burnt then you learn how to protect yourself and shut-off but its not entirely possible cause at some point you meet that person who will make you believe that he is different its worse with us woman we are made out of love and for love so not falling is really difficult but you know what they say once bitten twice shy so don't deny yourself the adrenaline let nature take its course and when you've been through enough you'll know when to shut off and go with the flow.

Answer 4

In matters of LOVE, FRIENDSHIP and MONEY!

I am logical. Like Ms. Spok! (really)
I consider MY future and every aspect of "what" this person will do for my life. I choose wisely. I even play wisely.

Better than that! I live without regret because of it. I know that I made the "right" choice for at that time with the information that I had at hand. No guilt or bad feelings. I nip it in the bud if it is bad!

Here's the funny thing, I was the class clown and no one ever took me serious. So it made it super easy for me, because, it kept them guessing all the time. Still do now as well.

Answer 5

The easiest way to not fall in love is to stop existing. What I mean is to shut off all your emotions. No laughter, no tears, no warmth, no happiness, no nothing. I tried that once. Cut off all my emotions. And you know what? The guy I was supposed to be with fought his way into my emotions hard. He got me laughing and crying and smiling. Love is sort of like water going down hill. You can divert the path, but you really can't stop it totally. It will find a way to get to where it has to be.

Answer 6

no-one is able to stop themselves from falling inlove because not one person has the mind power/will power to do so yall might disagree with me but i dont care this is my personal thoughts on the matter if anyone person could choose wheter to fall in love or not than they would not be true to themselves by leaving something to be desired now would they and what makes them not fall in love is not there own ambisions rather it is due to the fact that they have not met the right person for them

Answer 7

ur will is you direct desire whether to fall in or out of love. if you are one that goes weak at the knees for an entire gender, you are not a lover, yet if you are one whose heart flutters for a select few or maybe single one, then you are a lover and must embrace that. there is no hiding from love, since it is everywhere. you may try and hopelessly fail not falling in love, but then you would deny your own nature
do you wish to deny your own nature?

Answer 8

some people have goals that they feel are more important than falling in love at the present time, so they control their thoughts and emotions. if they do start to feel something for another then they switch off and apply themselves to their goals.

i don't think this is a good thing, but it takes all types yeah.

Answer 9

Don't get too close to a guy, emotionally. The best way NOT to fall in love is NOT TO BE OPEN EMOTIONALLY. Don't listen to his/her personal, sad or happy or sentimental stories or secrets, never share your stories or secrets as well, don't trust or believe him/her too much, don't help him/her out too much...and don't be exclusive, see other guys/girls. You know the drill. You don't have to be mean or act like a jerk, just don't care too much.

Answer 10

There is no protection that why is called "falling" in love.