hi, the other day i went round to my friends for a drink and a natter, there was a knock at her door and her neighbour jill came in, she was in her mid 40's and dressed very smart and was very polite and posh, so i couldn't believe it when my mate asked her to tell me what her hubby and her get up to at the weekends...she and her hubby have other couples round and swap partners and have all sorts of kinky sex they only ask that they have all the tests done to make sure no one has stds...i asked how she felt seeing her hubby with another woman and she said it turned her on...oh my god i couldnt do that if i caught my hubby with another woman i would chop his penis off and feed it to him then he really would be f....d! could you swap partners and still have a happy marriage or am i just too jealous to try it?
2006-11-10 22:23:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For some people it works and for some people it doesn't. If your instinctive reaction is genital mutilation, I suspect that 'swinging' is not for you.
There is a parasexual behaviour known as Zelophilia, where the jealousy causes sexual arousal. Others clearly just enjoy watching their partner having sex with someone else.
I strongly believe that no-one should do anything they feel uncomfortable with, but that equally we should not force our own morality on others. Problems occur in relationships where one partner pressures or feels pressured into things, so a lot of careful discussion has to take place first.
In short, if it floats their boat, they're not causing anyone else distress and they are acting responsibly in the privacy of their own home, good luck to them.
2006-11-10 22:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What`s the point in getting married ,dont get it?If they want to swing they should get it out of their system before they commit.Perhaps He likes men or she likes women.I could understand it more then,but why marriage ??? I dont understand why women who want an extra woman envolved would just want the sexual anyway.I would have thought women want an emotional relationship with another woman.I can see why He`d be into an extra woman though.He`d be well laughing.No I couldn`t do that.I beleive marriages should be monagomous and taken seriously.
2006-11-11 06:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like yourself there is no way i could do this!!
I don't see how couples who do this can really love each other. Why the hell would anyone marry to carry on like this?! The love must be gone but they feel the need to stay together for whatever reaon.
2006-11-11 06:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by trixi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! No way wud i do that. I am sooooooo jealous. I go mad even if my bf looks at another girl. And no ur not 2 jealous coz people who do things like that obviously are not people 4 relationships and trust.
2006-11-11 08:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by lianna066 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm with you
i must be the only guy on earth who doesn't want to get in on with his girlfriend and another sexy girl
sure the fantasy is interesting to consider, but no way would i do that in reality, at least not with my girlfriend, or while i was in a relationship
but given the opportunity to have fun with two sexy girls, then i'm the same as most boys (as long neither is my gf)
2006-11-11 06:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally couldnt do it. I know people who could and do, but i am not willing to try it. They tried to tell me that if i was that insecure about my relationship it wasnt the right one, but i believe that i am just not secure enough in myself. Dont let anybody tell you that you are simply 'too jealous' to try something. What is this, 6th grade???
2006-11-11 06:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by talz_talz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very fundamentals of a marriage are built upon commitment and trust, and if anything should jeopardise that then its not a good idea.
2006-11-11 06:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by sweetcorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a husband There is NO way I would swap. I do not share. He will not need another woman. I am enough. NO Way!!!
2006-11-11 06:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is wrong because people who do that are clearly un happy in their marriage. I mean if I was married I would never do anything like that. I wouldn't worry about it if I was you.
2006-11-11 07:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way thats no marriage or relationship, i definetly wudn't do it
Rx
2006-11-11 07:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋