My boyfriend wants to have sex, but i dont know what to do. help me, im worried about feeling embrassed since its noot his first time
2006-11-10 21:59:45 · 10 answers · asked by crazy4u6011 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The real question is: Do you want to have sex with him? Are you ready for the responsibility that having sex can and does entail? Is this a permanent relationship or just another boyfriend that will leave the moment a new band comes into town?
I've read your other questions and answers, and you seem like a teenager on the younger side of 18. It seems you are also unsure of yourself. When engaging in sexual contact you should be completely sure of yourself (inexperienced or not) and your feelings.
In this case I feel that inaction is the best course of action.
2006-11-10 22:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good idea to even consider sex, until you are married. There are just too many things that can go wrong in the long term. If he truly loves you, he should be willing to hold back until you are both married.
2006-11-10 22:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel comortable and he is trustworthy and you feel he will be with you beyond the sex than go ahead, but if he only want to have sex with you and is not ready to shares your sorrows than keep away your self from him.
2006-11-10 22:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by PIRU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really enjoy his company and above 18 yrs , go ahead and enjoy your time , ensure you both are taking all the precautions to avoid premarital pregnancy .
2006-11-10 22:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married before you get into that kind of relationship with a man. Why take the risk of getting pregnant or some kind of incurable disease? Wait honey trust me its the best thing and if he cannot respect that then let him go. He isn't worth your time anyway. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-11-10 22:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by mamabag06 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your his girl, he needs to care abt u and ur feelings
and if your not ready, go and tell him ur not ready
and if he forces u he does not respect u or ur feelings,
in that case u should break up and maybe find someone worth it
plz dun rush into anythin ull regret , and se* is a serious matter
2006-11-10 22:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop being embarrassed, you have to start somewhere...
If you are wanting some information, I have a few websites that might be of use...
2006-11-10 22:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...a public forum is REALLY not the place to make up you mind about this. the only person who should tell you what to do is YOU.
2006-11-10 22:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by Joie de Vivre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is for married couple only!!! it is sacred!! don't do it if the two of you are not married yet!!! and if this guy really luvs you,he will not ask to have sex w/ u until both of you are married!! this guy is only after sex not you and your love for him!!!!!!
2006-11-10 22:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't worrie, have a couple drinks first...but make sure you are being safe about things, cause then it's not worth it!!
2006-11-10 22:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋