i broke up with my boyfriend on april. he just told me that he did not have feelings for me anymore. i dont know what the problem was but i suspect its because my siz did not like him and he dint like her.i miss him alot and i dont find anyway i can love. should i call him or just go on with my life?i also find it hard to get another 1 .
2006-11-10 21:11:55 · 30 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go on with your life. If he really did end the relationship because of your sister, then why the hell would you want him anyway?
Unless, you want to hear what you want to hear. Then that's just stupid.
2006-11-10 21:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by IceTrojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I don't think that anyone should go through the stress of making someone like you because it is very impossible to do so. Even God has difficulty in making humans love him. Why should you so hounding behind such a man. Because he is so low making your sister come between you two he has missed out on all the good things that you could have offered him. He doesn't know what he has missed out on its his loss. Go on with life and find someone who would appreciate you and wouldn't make little things a big thing. Get a real man and don't worry in the right time the right man would come along we all go through our dry spells. Get over this guy first as long as you would like to take because life is not a race. Go into something else when you are good and ready and not when someone else is. Do this for you.
2006-11-10 21:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awe, I am indeed sorry for your hurts, I think many of us have been in your position, both male and female.
As hard as it seems to be to say, it really may be best to keep going, and know that the chances are that sooner or later a much better man will come your way.
If he ran because of your sister, then he would run for some other reason, probably. If he came back, you could never quite trust that he would not say the same thing to you again.
I personally think it far better to be alone and be as happy as I can be, than to be miserable with someone who will not put our relationship first, and my feelings with it.
Yes, we men do occasionally have feelings, but are trained not to show them.
So, take heart, you can move forward, and at least you have the knowledge and comfort that you will not ever hear those words again from him.
If I were your brother, I might go find him and put itching powder in his pants. He has a bit of itch and twitch coming, so it seems.
We are all worthy of genuine love, and I don't think he has the capacity!
2006-11-10 21:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call up for one last time to satisfy yourself and close the chapter forever, at least you will feel that u tried. if he too has been missing you - which is very unlikely. then go ahead.
if not - then be happy and releaved of such a person out of your life who uses excuses to fall out of feelings.
wait for some time and you will certainly find someone, cause ots not hard to find someone, but hard to forget one
2006-11-10 21:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by livelife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feeling so bad for u but when he dont want to continue the relation then no need to call him back , go on with ur life may be u'll find someone better then him.
2006-11-10 21:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Fahim . 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont analyse.Take it on the chin.I f You called Him and He wanted one thing He`d say it was Your sis.Read the writing.What has fate got to do with the price of tomatoes !!?
2006-11-10 23:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got to be honest - if he has no feelings for you but you chase him then he'll probably sleep with you a few times and keep you hanging around while he chases other girls.
Sorry, men are dogs. We should know better.
2006-11-10 21:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by The Wandering Blade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, i think it was more than your sister not liking him after all, he wasn't dating your sister he was dating you. You will find another and i understand what you are going through, but ask yourself this .If he didn't have feelings for you, why would you want to go that route again? Do you think he's sitting back thinking about you? No he's moved on please try and do the same Best of Luck
2006-11-10 21:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by CareBear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is too short move on there are lots of loving guys out there
2006-11-10 22:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by tigger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between the two I think it would be a what cause I see no fate anywhere in it.
2006-11-10 21:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DON'T call him! He made it clear to you that he didn't want you to be together. You need to spend time having fun with your friends and not even think about starting another relationship yet. You will get over him, it just takes time.
2006-11-10 21:19:43 · answer #11 · answered by trixi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋