This person is making my life a hell. I know him for d past few months. The 1st time i saw him, he seemed 2 b quite a decent,well mannered guy. But for d past few weeks his behaviour has fully changed. First he used 2 stare me, flirt with me .But now he dont even look at me. I felt dat i was quite attracted 2 him & should take him as jst a flirt but then i came 2 know his frnds even tease him by my name. Jst last week i met old pal & started 2 talk wit him. My frnd told me dat this made him feel jealous & upset. If i make up my mind 2 ignore him its his gestures which drive my attention & if one day i'll expect him 2 atleast c me he won't. I'm confused since i feel i'm mad about him but also don't wanna have a heartbreak. What should i do?
2006-11-10 21:07:49 · 7 answers · asked by tania 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you have stated about yourself ,excuse me, but you do not seem to be an innocent girl abroad.But perhaps the previous contacts apparently did not create any lasting impression on your mind as this one did. From what you say about his frends teasing him about you shows that the attraction is mutual. This is further evidenced by his openly expressing his displeasure about you association with your past flames(?) If I am not mistaken you apparently did not give any encouraging reply to his earnest request for keeping away.This must have hurt him and he might have decided that perhaps you do not respond to his overtures feeling that for you he is nothing more than another companion for an outing.So the ball rests in your court now and if you really want to play a serious game keep all reservations away and talk to him freely and frankly.Push it down his throat that your talking to an old friend and that too when he was looking on was in fact meant to awaken jealsy in him to convince yourself that he really cared for you.That your rather cold response to his earnest request was just to tease him further.Reassure him that he and he alone who is reflected in your eyes.I think that his occasional coldness towards you is nothing but a sham. Buck up and best of luck.
2006-11-10 21:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi tania.. how r u.. u r in a bigggg problem honey.. haah. just kidding buddy.
two possibilities are there--
i think u must be very clear in ur vision... actually u r thinking that he will take first step.. i think he will not.. because i feel he is also equally shy as u r. and if he is, he will not take that step if u dont want him to.. if u do, give him more space to be with u.. he loves u and will tell u only if he has this surity that u also likes him. let him know that u r also equally on fire... (and now dont ask me how!!) be a good girl and dont think of other possibilities of heartbreak and all.. u cant feel love without expressing urself. if u´ll think of heartbreak and wont tell him. then also u will loose him. better to try and fail than not trying...
2nd possibility is he dont love u and fooling around.. but still u need to know his feelings and for that u again need to do same things as above.. its a simple theory of love.... express urself and u will get what u want..
be brave and dont think of his ignorance or anything. everything must end.. this is a dilema.. u cant be with it for a long time.
and one more thing, be positive.. and if ur blood group is also same.. then nothing wonderful than that.. hahaah
god bless u . take care.. byee
Tabbu
2006-11-12 05:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Tabbu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well simply he just might get tired of you...or some are moody ,maybe he will be again good with you...i think you have to wait a little bit more ,if he doesnt seem to be like before then just dont waste ur time ..you wont be heartbroken if you dont let him to countinue playing with you ...there are many other nice guys for you to meet why being in a cold relation?
2006-11-10 21:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your making your own life hell because your just not mature enough to understand what's going on. I think you should just forget him and move on, grow up and mature. A little help with the English language would help, and an understanding of sentences and putting them together.
2006-11-10 21:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry if I sound rude, but firstly, learn to write in proper English. Other problems can be solved later.
2006-11-10 21:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him experience that he's in value and that u r defenseless. even as the going receives warm female strut ur stuff enable the mood take u no female desires suggestion on strikes u were given em interior of u u purely gotta not be shy to enable them out.
2016-11-29 00:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed the relationship enough. Just find somebody new to play games.
2006-11-10 21:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋