I have a terrible problem i think my boyfriend is going with my sister my?

Question

lives in the same country as me my boyfriend is always working where she lives last nite him and i where supposed go away he phone early but when i rang him back his phone was turned of and when i rang her phone she bot the phone down im going out of my mind is there any one out there can help me u no when somthing is going on well i have that bad gute felling

Answer 1

Hi sorry to hear how you feel. Does your sister live reasonably close to you? If she does, why not pop around to her house and see if your boyfriends car is outside. Did your sister put the phone down because you accused her of being with your boyfriend, if so she would have been hurt. Your boyfriend's mobile phone may have been out of signal and not turned off. Speak to him gently, you will be able to see from his eyes and face if he is hiding something. There is probably a very good reason why this happened last night. Either way if you talk to your boyfriend hopefully his explanation will put your mind at rest.

Answer 2

I think that you should start looking for clues, how do they act when they are around each other. Also if you can get to see their phones see if the other ones number is on there and if it is look at the time that calls were made etc.

Gut feelings can sometimes be right, but not always so before you confront them about see if you can find any clues, even try joking about the two of them being together the next time that you are with them both and see what their reactions are. If there is no comment from either, then there could be something in it. However if they go over the top about it, check to see if they keep looking at each other after you have said it, might even be worth going out of the room, but listening at the door to see if they comment about it

Answer 3

Ahaaaa, this is a sure sign of Griebaturism, very rare, but I have come upon it before, not here in England but while touring the Keys in Florida, one of the islands is called Marathon, there they have a family who are called the Griebats, this family have been inbreeding for close to three centuries, in some severe cases namely one in France shortly after the first world war, they hung Herbert Montaray Griebats, thinking him a monkey, sounds crazy I know. The condition of Griebaturism manifests itself by way of covering either parts or in rare cases all of the body with excess hair. I would suggest not considering building a family as the horror of bearing a chimp like child to be too much to bear. Lots of luck to you

Answer 4

At the risk of sounding harsh, I would say to tell her that if she wants him, she can have him. You will save yourself quite a few heartaches if you do.
And if they have done something, do not believe he loves you if he asks for forgiveness. If he is that much of a git, he will do it again. He could keep hurting you over and over, you would never be able to fully trust him.
Some men are like tomcats. I know, while I would not do a woman that way, I am an man, and know some who would.
"A stiffy has no morals, and no regrets" If the man can't control it, it will control him.
If he has done this, he is not worth of your love and affections.

Answer 5

Step back, cool off, give them space. If its happening it'll come out on its own and by then you should make sure you're at a safe distance.

If he's trning his fone off when you have a date aranged then kick him into touch. Thats not good behaviour.

Your suspicions are probably right.

Answer 6

simple:ask to your sister. if the answer is "yes", stop seeing your boyfriend. this is not the worst thing in the world. you will feel pain. but this pain will bring you to maturity. and if the answer is "yes" your sister will understand sth. is really wrong, sooner or later. be sure. if the answer is "no" , then you must 'clean' your mind. being skeptic is not good for your health.
good luck!

Answer 7

I think you should talk to both of them and listen to your instincts. the longer you don't ask them the more paranoid you are going to be. But if you really can’t bring yourself to ask them then the only thing I can suggest you do is hire a private investigator.

Answer 8

can you please start asking questions. You keep putting question marks at the end of statements. It makes you look stupid. If your boy friend is banging your sister it is not his fault. Every man would like to say they had sisters. The problem is your sister, she would have to be the biggest ***** in the world. I would ditch the prick and kick her ***.

Answer 9

sorry but i won't be much help here, even though i am answering the question, wait what is the point of me answering. why am i continuing this, im going to stop now.

Answer 10

i dont think you should say anything to them, but maybe ring a few more times and see if the same thing happens again. once might just be coincidence.