I loved this girl for 2 years after we broke up she did it and i cant live without her, i love being with her shes so fun and beautiful and i have no idea what to do about this and she doesn't know i still love her... she is the most important person in my life and ive spent so many times protecting her and still she doesn't care about me that much.
2006-11-10 20:03:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her exactly how you feel.
2006-11-10 20:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Princess_29_71 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stefan what's the question? I read a statement. You are just going to keep loving her whether she wants you to or not. Period. Is that it?
Let me share a quote I love:
"Nothing spoils the taste of peanut butter like unrequited love."
Charlie Brown (from the comic strip Peanuts)
If you want to be in pain; if you want to be miserable and make everyone around you miserable, just because your girl moved on, then so be it. You'll hang on until you don't hang on anymore.
Or, you can change your thinking. Change yourself by taking care of yourself. By learning to do new things, dressing in a different style, focusing on work, whatever makes you feel good. If you see this girl, smile, say something positive about your life, and move away before she can say anything. If you're a different person around her, she will wonder what was wrong with her that you didn't look and act so good N happy when you were together.
But it is really all about you. It's your choice to be sad and boring, which isn't going to make her wonder about you. Just make her cross the street. We are not victims--you are not a victim. Pathological sadness doesn't bring anyone to save us. It does however send people running for their homes, and locking their door.
Two years should be long enough for you to hear what I'm saying to you. Aren't you dog tired of feeling bad??
We've all had our hearts broken, and thank the Universe for it. We've grown through every painful experience, if we feel it, change ourselves, and realize that person was a rest stop on our way down life's path to meet up with our last love.
May you heal, move on, look good, feel good, help others, and be attractive to that last love.
Blessings.
2006-11-11 04:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by metaphysical_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because she acts like she doesn't care, doesn't mean that she doesn't.
Just because you think you know that she doesn't care, doesn't mean that she doesn't.
Look at it from her perspective: "Hmm, let's see. We broke up, he is kind of protecting me, yet he does not tell me that he still loves me. Sounds to me like he just wants to hit the sack with me. I'd better keep him at a distance, because I don't want to fall for him (again) and get my heart broken (again)."
My question to you now is: Are you behaving like a man who wants to spend the rest of your life with this girl? Are you even a man, crying here 'What should I do?'
I think you know very well what to do and what to say. You are just afraid to say and do it! Come on, man! Buy her some flowers, ask her out for a movie and/or dinner. If you don't do it, you'll be wondering for the rest of your life what could have been. If you do it, you'll know.
Good luck!
2006-11-11 04:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Guide 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have try and it's not working out, then let her go, may be the two of you are not meant to be together. But keep trying who knows it might just work out some day if she is truely your woman she will come back to you. because i believe in this what is your, is yours forever set it free, no matter how long it stays if it's yours it will surely come back to you. come rain come shine it's still yours. tell her lovely things your a man, you guys you always know your ways. well it's up to you. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-11 04:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by babydoo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, if she's gone let her go. Then you go get some help. Cause if you don't let her go anything else is considered stalking and you can go to jail for that. Then guess what she's gonna be scared of you and you'll never get her back. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!
2006-11-11 04:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she don't care because your trying to protect her let her stand on her own 2 feet sheesh there's like a billion other women out there "look around and i shall show you women that will make your swan look like a crow"(or something like that)
2006-11-11 04:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by keoni_21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
True love is hard to find.Don't be shy and tell her what you think there might be that chance that she still love you as well.Good luck!!!!
2006-11-11 04:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's just going to keep hurting you if you keep doing things for her. She's a user.
2006-11-11 04:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by Vince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a call she will care. Tell her what you do for her.
2006-11-11 04:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen to dmx "up in here" and grow yourself a pair!
no woman is worth cryin' over.
2006-11-11 04:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by Spicoli 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She doesn't appreciate you, so you need to let her go and find someone who will.
2006-11-11 04:11:56 · answer #11 · answered by lilgiggle33 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋