English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

he is really mad on me. he is my senior.so iam afraid. i told him that iam not interested even then he is walking behind me help me pls

2006-11-10 19:54:40 · 16 answers · asked by molu 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

Hi dear,
If u r quite sure dat u dnt like him then u b ur own way. I dnt thnk there is any reason 2 b scared if sum1 walks behind u. If he tries 2 b physical then u cn always complain 2 higher authorities.
IGNORE him as if it makes no difference 2 u if he is there. if u mk any gestures of being scared then he might thnk u r interested 4 him. If u dnt gv any heed 2 his presence near u he wl automatically go his way.
No need 2 b harsh or rude 2 him. Give him due respect as a senior & treat him just d same as u do 2 others. It wl carry a wrong impact on u. Moreover if u show differences in behaviour amongst ur seniors it wl mk it obvious 2 him dat u r gvn him attention.
GOOD LUCK ALWAYS. BE A SPORT.

2006-11-18 04:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kashish 2 · 0 0

hi pricey, basically loosen up , and do not take rigidity. that's the familiar aspect which takes position in ninety % situations of faculty females. i'm a 23 years guy and that i will comprehend the "thoughts" of that guy who loves u. you're saying that "his love isn't authentic love and in hardship-free words an allure" ? how can u say this? His love would properly be authentic. And one aspect, his age is 21 n urs (would properly be) lower than 20, then, u aren't to any extent further sufficient mature of awareness the "authentic intenctity of authentic love". So dont attempt to "choose his love". ok. Now ur situation: U can get rid of him through following those steps: a million) do basically no longer concentration on him 2) ignore his activities. 3) do no longer create a huge scene through giving him a slap in the front of others (as one among previous answerer reported u) 4) if u dont love him then basically tell him as we talk, basically bypass ahead. best of success. united stateslove_platina029 reply me if u get authentic love in ur existence. if i wont get a reply i will comprehend that u dont understand what's authentic love.

2016-10-16 08:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Tell him in a very strong terms that you are not interested, he is too old for you and also tell him to stop following you around.. Ensure you have some witness present when you confront him.

2006-11-18 04:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0 0

ha this is not as big problem as it seems from your question.He is walking behind you , you turn back and just have a talk with him making your own negative points( of course that must not be true about you.) and then just wait and watch.

2006-11-17 23:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by bubun 1 · 0 0

If you have no intention to reciprocate his love, you must be very stern with him. One has to be ruthless, while saying no to somebody. The message should be clear and definite.

2006-11-10 20:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hi there its simple... jus b with him 4smtm &tel him dat v need time to get into a relation first v shal b friends...but rem jus dont avoid him bluntly cus it cud make him wild.any suggestion
mail me arnvn@yahoo.com

2006-11-17 12:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Naveen R 2 · 0 0

i also faced this problem don't worry first tell him that you are not loving him then warn him if he does not stop following you then you just ignore him...don't think about him not at all & try to make new relations & share your happy,sad everything..& you just made new friend,you can share with me also.....be happy,,keep smiling

2006-11-10 20:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by superstar 1 · 0 0

Dont be scared jus bcoz he's a senior. if you dont like it.....ask him to stop there and then. If he continues then tell ur parents or any other authority.

2006-11-10 20:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by wingsoflife 1 · 0 0

nxt time when he follows u, ,jst turn around & say that u are already fixed & seeing somebody. be stern while speakin. it will turn him off. all the best.

2006-11-17 21:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you can do one thing is talk about this with your parents
they can handle this thing better. If you are afraid to talk to them you can talk with your best friend..then she can talk to her parents or can directly talk to your parents.
be sure...that before taking any steps take your parents in concern...they are your best guide....listen to your inner voice ..listen what it says..it will help..be cool....talk it out ....u r parents will understand...best of luck for your future...

2006-11-17 22:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers