I cannot forget her.. should i commit suicide?

Question

I am heart broken.. i tried all my level best to forget about her.. i could not.. life is a pain.. without her..
I don't want to live anymore.. without her..
i tried to get along with other girls.. but everyone is reminding me of my ex...
anyone have felt this before.. how did you gone through it..?
i am a funny person.. changed completely because of this break up...

i am really crying.. reading your answers.. thanks for all your kindness...
but ... i am not a stupid to commit suicide.. i don't know how to cheat my mind to forget her.. thanks for making me break down into tears.. fellass..

Answer 1

everyone i think in one point in our lives has felt the same pain. it'll pass. nothin here on earth is permanent, even hurt.
Think about this.. God sees you in your pain and He knows excatly when to relieve it. One thing's for sure, that happened for a reason. After that, you'll emerge one strong person.

I read that there are stages one has to go through when confronted with pain. First is the denial stage. we refuse to accept the truth and create all sorts of wrong reasons and justification why it happened. Then after that, comes the bargaining phase. in your case, say u bargain to her, wooing her and promising everythin just to win her back - all to no avail. others who are not mature enough often takes too long before they could pass these stages. Often, they intend to stay in misery and refuses to let go. Last stage is acceptance. That's when you finally realised and understood the genuine reason why it happened. You now resolve to go on with your life.

Take it easy man. you'll pass through... i know

Answer 2

Take consolation in the fact that time heals all wounds. Coping up with a break up is always painful. Endure the pain and little by little you will come out of it. Everything that happens to us in this lifetime has a purpose. Someone who knows what is best for you is at the helm. So you don't have to worry. While the wound is still fresh and festering, you are entitled to grieve. You are only human...but after you are done with grieving, you have to move on. It is not the times that we fall down that counts, but the times that we stood up after each fall. Leave the ghosts of the "dead" behind. And stand up again victorious. I am certain , your lucky someone would be waiting for you perhaps at the other bend of the road. Judging on your statements, i can perceive that you are a sincere and greatly devoted man, and I know you will find the BEST and more deserving girl for you.

Answer 3

No!! If you are seriously thinking about suicide, please get help. There are lots of suicide hotlines you can start with. PLEASE GET HELP!!!

What I can tell you is that things do get better. I know you can't see that now, but your heart will heal. It'll take time, but it'll happen. But to experience all the good things life will offer you in your life, you have to be here. Ending your life is never the answer.

Break-ups can be very hard. I've been there. I swore I would never love again after that, but my heart did heal and my life went on and the pain was gone. In time you'll learn to love again and you'll feel like new, but having learned a lot about love and life. Having your heart broken is not easy, but it will make you stronger in the long run. Seek help if you are in a crisis, and apart from that, surround yourself with family and friends. Be patient with yourself. You don't have to rush right out into dating again. Give yourself time to heal. You'll know when you're ready (and yes, the day will come) and then you'll be able to date without being reminded of your ex.

Answer 4

heyman, u just tell me that WHY R U BORN ? u r born for a vry special reason. evrytime side by sie GOD is walking with u, even on the verge u speak. u must remember that the life i snot there to live and then suicide, ur life is fun, enjoyment. bcause of a girl, u cannot give a chance to the evil or satan to pull u to death. even now i mm telling u that u shud never forget that girl and even if u try,, u wont be able to and cant u understand that if she has hurt u why shud u hurt urslf. u r very special thats why u loved somone, now when she has hurt u r u still going to be strong. these days must PRAY. u shud that now GOD IS the only way to reach not stan or evil and evil is death. u must pray and i promise, 100% to u that slowly and slowly she will get off ur mind and u will live a normal life. u must never give up, u shud not fall, have faith in JESUS and confidence in urslf. never fall
"the best part of life is not when u dont fall
"the best part is when u fall and rise up."
and so, u now u have fallen down but u have to rise up my boy
u shud be proud that once u loved someone, u shud not regret.
if u need any more help i m there for u, contact me, i m always ready. alright!!!!!

Answer 5

I'm going through the same thing but its more of my best friend..my best friend just passed away a few weeks ago and where ever i go i think about her constantly or something well remind me of her...yes it is hard to and i do miss her oh so very much...i even want to be with her because in life we never left each other sides. we were always together no matter what and now that she is gone i want to still be with her. but if i was to commite suicide id not only be hurting myself but also the ones i love and care about..the most i can do is just remember the good times about her..which yourself you should do...do u believe its worth taking your life over some one you broke up with. what well your mom and dad think? do they want to bury there own son?...you cant go down that road take some time and you well slowly get over her.

Answer 6

You have given 15 Best answers. Wow !!
It looks that you are intelligent enough !
Then why are you thinking sucha stupid things ?
Man, your life is not yours, your parent, your brothers, your sisters also have equal share on you.
My dear friend, a girl is not a world !
This world is very much beautiful and this world is not limited to a girl. Enjoy the life which is very much precious.
You have a calibre to get a good girl. That was bad girl and it is better that she left you and you saved your life.
It is life and it happenes to many people but all they are not that big losers !
So behave like a daring person !
Yahoo-answer need such a brilliant and intelligent person like you.
Best of luck !

Answer 7

No woman is worth the trouble of committing suicide. That is never to be resorted to, whatever be the loss. You have a multitudinous choices in hand. For the time being, to get over the feeling of disappointment, you may go on a long trip out some where you will divert yourself in sight seeing and in some activities you most like. Life is the gift of god, and never for a moment think of giving it up for the sake of some one who had no heart for you.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

How can you become so sentimental? You have to realize that world is not as little as you've thought. Many better girls outside who waiting for you, but you've not found yet. And many things you can do than thinking about that.

Be a useful person for your own and your environment. Study and work hard to reach the highest carrier as you can do. The right girl will come later on.

OK, take care and keep try.

Answer 10

Committing suicide is definitely a blunder. The life which u got in this globe is for u to enjoy and finish it to its fullest length. You should think like this, "If she doesn't want me I also don't want her." In this world howmany girls are there who will love u. So try to convince ur own mind that u don't require a girl who doesn't want u. Try to stay at a place away from this girl and be busy with any other interesting job or people whom u like. Do it for some time such that u yourself slowly will forget her. There are many such examples daily taking place. So don't worry. Your affection to that girl is temporary. Definitely if u decide to change u can forget her.
Best of luck and happy life