2006-11-10 19:30:40 · 11 answers · asked by sunil g 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
no suicide is not the answer it is a cry for help sometimes it also is a form of anger. you feel "oh the hell with it, I'll just kill myself' no it is not just your life, it also belongs to people who love you like your family and friends, and people you have touched. from your other questions i read it sounds like you have touched a few people in your life. you say your best friend married your girlfriend, and you are in love with a younger person. sounds like your heart is hurting, and u feel frustrated with your life at this point. thinking about suicide relieves some of the pressure you are facing. to find the right love can take a while. i was forty one before i found my love, and that person is also 13 years younger than me. we have now been married for 15 good years. it can take time to find love, life is worth it, u are a special person, there is no one in the world like you. good luck i hope this helps
2006-11-11 00:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by zeek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT. I've been through similiar experiences! There is so much more to life than you could think of. 3 Years ago I was going through a VERY BAD PATCH in life & seriously contemplated it more than once. Well, I'm not gonna go into my life stort, but now I've met a wonderfull girlfriend, and we're travelling the world together. Something I never thought possible. And no, just for incase your wondering, we're not super rich. It's called a working holiday. The Sky Is The Limit, don't let things that happen to you get you down mate!!! YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH ASNYTHING IN LIFE!!! Give it your best!
2006-11-11 03:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by qrund 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you shouldn't. Everyone that cares about you, whether you believe them or not..cares about you and loves you. And it's a sin. Just because it's your life doesn't mean you should do that, it's the beholders life to..as in God. He doesn't want you harming your body. Maybe try listening to songs such as Hold On by:Good Charlotte, Collide by:Howie Day, and Helena by:My Chemical Romance will help you change your mind. Please DON'T!!! Oh..and you should also watch the video for Hold On too. And listen to some of the lyrics maybe that'll change ur mind.
2006-11-11 11:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Helena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't blame you. i felt this way before. i tried commiting suicide 3 times and out of the 3 i came close to dying twice. yeah, of course its your life and so it was mines. i told everyone to **** off and leave me alone. im not gonna tell you "people have it worst than you." no, i aint gona tell you that? you know why? because their problems are hard for them as well as your problems are hard for you. there is no "well she/he/they had it worst than you." everyones problems are worst for oneself and shouldnt be compared to the pain of others. suicide is a big step. its a permanent ending to something that is temporary. i dont know what or why you thought of this decision. suicide is not a game and it is not a situation where you can just play with. i learned it from my own mistakes. i was weak, and i know right now you are too because you want to die. everyday i told myself "the world is alkl against me". i was wrong. I WAS against the world. i turned my back on it and i was stupid enough not to do anything about my problems except cry and cut over it. you shouldnt do that. think it over and not do anything dramatic. don't you want to see how life will be like once the pain has pass you? don't you want to see what will happen to the world? will there be flying cars? will there be smaller mp3's and ipods? etc etc etc. all im saying is that don't give in. once you make that decision theres not turning back. i believe in heaven and hell. when you commit suicide you go to hell. it is scripted in the bible. i dont know about you, but when i die i want to be reincarnated or be sent to heaven at least. i just hope you take the right path, and understand what im telling you. i lost a friend who commited suicide and each time someone tells me "oh i want to commit suicide" i cant help but shudder at that fact.
"when you think the world has turn it's back on you, take another look, ...maybe it's you that has turned its back on the world."
2006-11-11 04:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by xkawaii 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's your life, true...but your life is connected to many other lives. if you take yours selfishly because you cannot deal with the pain youre in at the moment, think of all the other lives you will have disrrupted....the pain you will cause them, how will they handle it...will they feel the same as you??? will they too commit suicide because the pain of losing you will be too hard for them to bare????
Now think about the pain you were in during your past thoughts of suicide...did it not pass???
You're pain is deep, that is obvious. Talk to ppl. Family, friends, counselors, hotlines, onlines. The fact that you're ASKING the question on rather or not you should commit suicide or not proves that you have enough sense in your head to know that YOU REALLY DON'T WANT TO END YOUR LIFE JUST YET!!!! AND YOU SHOULDN'T!!!!!
Your life is precious....it's yours and yours alone....what you do with it is your choice. There are soooo many opportunities in this world....sometimes it gets overwhelming, sometimes the pressures are too grand, sometimes the pain too unbearable and sometimes the joys are larger than life. But they're all yours....how you choose to LIVE your life is a gift only you can open.
I'm gonna share with you what my sis always tells me...."don't let the lil ppl of this world get you down...don't let the pressures of life build on your shoulders until they break...don't let negative feelings consume your soul...be better than the petty ppl that try to beat you down, let go of the pressures that try to bury you and turn negative feelings into positive ones by doing something positive for either yourself or someone else who feels blue...you'll feel better, be better and make someone else's life better all in one shot".
Everytime i feel like crashing, i think of her words and then i either do something nice just for me or for someone else and everything starts to fall back into place again.
Pain is temporary, believe me, it truly is. But you gotta get up from the hurt, you cannot let it consume you.
You are special and you are worth more than you'll ever know...instead of tryiing to end your life, try exploring it....learn who you are, what you're good at, what you suck at, what you like and don't like...find out who you are on a best friend basis and then treat yourself like your best friend...because You are your own best friend. You'd cheer your best friend up if she/he was down right? You would do whatever you could to keep your best friend from hurting right? You're always there for your best friend right???? So why should you treat yourself any less than you would your best friend????
Everyday you get up, you have a choice as to how your day will go...you can let all the crap that happens in a day bring you down or you can turn all the crap into something that works for you and have a great day...EVERYDAY....that choice is also yours. I hope you choose to be happy and ALIVE daily !!!
Be good to YOU.
marjenl72
2006-11-11 05:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by marjenl72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would be so wrong,u think earth is bad,,hell is much worse and u dont want to go there,,sure sometimes we get a family who dont care,,but if u seek phyciatrist they will care,,they like people and worry about their feelings, thats why they took the job
2006-11-11 05:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know cowards die many times .R u Cowards? suicide is not the solution of a problem.
2006-11-11 03:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. First, you want to learn how to spell and punctuate properly. If you commit suicide and no one can understand the note you leave behind, your suicide will be for naught.
2006-11-11 04:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by boo! 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should learn how to spell commit before doing anything rash
2006-11-11 03:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
doing anything useful with your life and i mean ANYTHING is better than that
2006-11-11 03:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by keoni_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋