Everyone always says your so cute, handsome, ect. But i like never can find any one that I truely like and they like me back. Is it because I had a bad first relationship?
2006-11-10 19:06:39 · 16 answers · asked by Lebron Don Anthony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never find. Fall. The best relationships that I thought lasted longer or made a big impact on my life were the ones that I was never in search for. They just fell in my lap. Don't try to find yourself someone, just let it happen, and when the time is right, your gonna meet some one so amazing.
2006-11-10 19:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Amber K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself...i know it's a cliche but it works. Or maybe the problem is that since you're stuck on this bad first relationship you can't open yourself up to anyone else OR you're afraid to put yourself in another situation like that. Don't give up...there's someone out there for everyone. Trust me not to long ago I was in the same situation....but i've been with the same guy for 2 years and i couldn't be happier...just keep your eyes and heart open cause you never know where the right person for you could show up.
2006-11-10 19:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by mthcowgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easier to meet compatible girls if you run into her while you're engaged in your favorite hobby, activity or class at school. You immediately have something to talk about, and something to do together. Also your goals, passions, and lifestyles will likely be very similar. The first step is to figure out what it is you love doing, and the next is to follow your passions and interests. You'll find the girls right there by your side.
For some hobbies you might have to make an extra effort. If you like model trains you aren't likely to run into anyone at the hobby store or your basement, but if you joined a model train enthusiast club, ...still probably just guys. But if you had your own train store or worked there, ...then you'd still meet probably only guys. Hmm... How about bike riding, there's bound to be some chicks who do that.
2006-11-10 19:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they're probably being nice to u, when they say that ur nice, cute, & handsome & blah...blah...blah.
Here's my tips: Learn how to speak, read, write in correct English, get a college degree, dress professionally (not like-a-gangsta-wanna-B), suit & tie. Women are attracted to well-groomed educated men. I'm talking about quality women w/ class here. Not some ghetto, cheap, $4 bimbo on the street.
If u do of what I've adviced u, u will succeed.
Good luck on hunting ur woman prey.
2006-11-10 19:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can find yourself a girl, a girl that will love you, care for you, and also cherish you, if you want to, then pray to God and he will answer you. because in everything you do you have to ask God to direct you. God loves you and can do anything for you. when your first relatioship was bad did you care to pray for it? if you did and did not work out the two of you were not meant to be together. so just follow the steps and things will work out fine
so do the right thing and stay well. GOOD LUCK & HAPPY EXMAS in advance because it's just round the corner. God bless you.
2006-11-10 19:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by babydoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, maybe ur still hang up on the 1st one, sometimes i happens and u dont even notice it, maybe ur lookin in the wrong places, maybe u shouldnt be lookin at all, sometimes u can find the best things that arnt there infront of u, good things come to those who wait, dont be in a hurry to be attacted, being single is better, that way u can have fun when u want, with who u want, how u want, and not worry about anything eles!!!
2006-11-10 19:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by sexyelmo089 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just learn how to talk to ladies, and know when the right or wrong time is to make a move/ask a girl out. and the last thign u should do is worry. just dont worry man eventually u will fiind the perfect chick. all it takes is time so dont worry, worrying will only make thigns worse
2006-11-10 19:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by thecoolguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be because you wear your hat like a player and the look on your face is so mean. Try wearing your had like a man and smile :), chicks like men who appear soft hearted and sweet. You go boy !!
2006-11-10 19:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Self-doubt seems to be your biggest problem. Maybe up the confidence a bit, but make sure not to get too cocky.
2006-11-10 19:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Allie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be number of things: you could be annoying, intimidatingly gorgeous--it goes either way. Just breathe and wait for it to happen.
2006-11-10 19:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by akarimiko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋