I'm a 17 year old senior in high school, and for the last year and a half I've had a crush on this girl. But as I began to get to know her, she became one of my best friends. My feelings for her haven't changed though. I still love her. I still find myself thinking bout her at every free moment that I have. For God's sake, it's 2:37 in the morning and I'm up talking about her. There's just so much about her that I love, and I want to tell it all to her; how just seeing her smile makes me smile, how when she laughs I can't help but laugh back, how her beauty is what I imagine angels to look like. I want to tell her, but I just don't know if it's worth it. What if i tell her and she says no? Things would be awkward, and I just know that our friendship would be ruined. But, what if she says yes? I know I could never forgive myself if I don't tell her how I feel. But, though I may not know that much about love, I also know that I would rather have her as a friend than as nothing at all.
2006-11-10 19:01:08 · 7 answers · asked by screwsinhip 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i kind of had the same problem. i fell in love with this girl, she was liek my best friend though. eventually i figured out she liked me back so i was lucky. idk maybe u could just go and see a movie with her as a friend, anddd just go on a few walks, tlak with her, tlak about ur feelings and about how life is. dont talk about your feelings for her but just talk to her. try to make her like u back, if she doesnt already. if u keep talkign to her and become comfertable with talking to her about things that are deep and emoitinal then go for it. if she says no just be like "ok thats fine, becuase i would much rather have u be my firend then have this be akward" id k you would have ti think of exactly waht to say though.
2006-11-10 19:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by thecoolguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there. I know it's a rally hard place to be. I out and out asked her out, and we've been dating for almost 4 years. Looking back, though, I would recommend that you simply talk to her and explain the situation. Tell her how you feel, that you value her as a friend, and that you really don't want to lose the friendship, either. And, assuming it's true, tell her that, one way or another, you love her, regardless. There is no better cornerstone for a strong relationship then a strong friendship.
2006-11-11 04:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by MikEnigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoouldve made your move. tough lesson in life - YOU NEVER GET OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE. for some reason, girls put you in there, then spend the rest of the time you know them dating the biggest jackass they can find and complaining to you about it. they are morons. get over it.
but you never know, fortune favors the bold. make a huge move, something that wil force her to re-evaluate you, to see you in a new light, and you might have a shot. go for the gold. you might have a shot. its usually all or nothing though. go for it.
2006-11-11 03:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow man you dont understand how much of a postion im in with you and this is perfect becuase of what im about to say is what i did but look same thing i got cose to this girl that i really liked and i was sure she dident feel the same about me but i dident want to make a move becuase if things changed it would hurt and thats the least i wanted...i wanted to spend all my time with her and make her feel perfect and jsut to put a smile on her face but i actualyl said i like you and she was like wow i aint ready to have a bf but dead serious everything was the same after that went right back to normal bascially im sayin if you dont say anything its gonna eat u inside out and your gonan regret it trust me so do it man thats my pick...goodluck tho i want to talk to you again lemme know what goes down lata
2006-11-11 03:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. Find a situation where you could say, "Hey we might as well go out."
I kinda got the same thing going on. Except we just talk, aren't really friends.
2006-11-11 03:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth a try to tell her what you feel .aleast she may realized how deep your love is !she should understand you if she love s as deep as you .May she is waiting for you somehow!
2006-11-11 03:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by ®ÔµM ¸showboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. as long as your friends agree. and it will not ruin your other friendships
2006-11-11 03:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋