I've been with my g/f for over 2 months, and when I'm with her she messes up the hair of other guys, steps on their shoes, or teases them by pushing them...And this all happens in front of me... I'm sure she does the same when I'm not around.
I have to admit that I'm a bit jealous... I really care for her, but am I crazy for being a bit jealous that she's doing these things with other guys? Or is it normal?
She claims ot have no feelings for these other guys and they're just friends...
Do you think she is just playful, likes them, or is purposely trying to make me jealous?
2006-11-10 18:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess she purposely makes u jealous
girls r complex....
2006-11-10 19:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by ~electra~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that flirting is a completely normal thing whether or not you are dating someone. Although, her flirting seems to be a little more physical than I would take as 'normal.' Try talking to her and making sure you both have the same expectations out of the relationship.
2006-11-10 18:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by Allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you should probably move on to someone who is unattached because that jealousy is just going to eat you up. Flirtation is fine so long as you know that's all it is. You're on the edge of an obsession and it's unhealthy. Find someone else to be with. I'm in agreement with what Alexandria says.
2016-03-28 02:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, u guys have only been going out for 2 months. try not to feel that you OWN her yet. try to talk to her about it. tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable whenever she does that. compliment her that she is pretty and has nice hair and that you feel lucky you have such a confident girlfriend. don't ATTACK her, compliment her and she will listen. and if she doesn't, maybe she is not ready...
and I think its ok for guys to be jealous, its in their nature to feel ownership over girls. just don't overreact it. you will be fine.
my boyfriend and i experienced all these emotion after being together since high school and counting. good luck.
2006-11-10 18:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's one of the devious games of girls, making the boys to become jealous. Don't fall for it. It's absolutely deliberate.
Sometimes these games can really intimidate us men. But that is the whole point, The games are played like a test. To see how far we can endure. Don't fall for it. Don't EVER fall for it.
Good luckl.
2006-11-10 18:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably just is really good friends with guys. my cousin's the same way, she just doesnt click with girls. it could be a bit of her trying to test you just because hey, 2 months and she wants to know if you feel the same way she does. if she says she doesnt like them dont even worry about it, you can always let her know ur a lil jealous though cause it'll make her feel special but dont smother her with your jealousy. :) Good luck buddy!
2006-11-10 18:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes a Sl(_)t. An Attention Whore. DUMP HER. Get a Decent Girl.
Its Not like she has the last Vagina on Earth.
2006-11-10 18:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes just a naughty girl..it doesnt mean she likes others not at all..but i dont feel she is trying to make u jealous either..well it should be her nature if you understand what i mean ..so if you cant deal with it ...think about talking to her or stop being in a serious relation with her.
2006-11-10 18:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Creative 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem big guy. I wish I knew the answer to this.
2006-11-10 18:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by John Doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i thnk she might not like them like that maybe she just wants them to like her... talk to her about it
2006-11-10 18:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋