im being bullied, what should i do?

Question

Theres this boy in my year who makes me feel like crap all the time. he keeps calling me man all the time, and tripping me up on purpose. i wish there was some way i could get back at him, but i cant think of any good comebacks. he really upsets me and doesnt seem to care, and hes making my life at school a misery. what should i do?

Answer 1

I know what you mean...

I had a guy at school call me "freaking Nazi" everyday a school... he made others hate me.... I had no friends there..... His reason for doing it? He made up lies about me, he said I hated Jewish people...

He falsly accused me of what I didn't do... and he made everyone else believe it.

He hurt me deeply...... but God gave me the grace to forgive him...

even though he wasn't sorry.


This is what you can do:


Get your parents to meet with his parents... that ended the problem for me.


The best thing to do, is not call him names or do anything bad to him, even though he deserves it... he can use that against you.



Forgive him.


God bless you and yours.

Answer 2

I know exactly how you feel. I was bullied by a group of girls and a group of guys all through high school. I was told to ignore them as they wanted the attention. Which I did until the last year at high school when I just snapped one day.
Six years of stress and anger!!! I really ended up hurting the girl. Scarred her for life!! The guy then had a go at me about a week later and again, I just snapped. He only ended up with a black eye. But it wasn't the right thing to have happened. If I could go back to when they first started picking on me. I would go to the teachers first, then tell my parents. You might still get stirred up a bit by him or his mates but you need to stop it as soon as possible. If this doesn't work, as a last resort I would do so karate training. This will make you more able to defend yourself. I don't recommend doing karate just to kick his butt!!
He needs to be stopped before his bullying turns nasty. And you will be helping yourself as well as any other kids he picks on that you don't know about.

You have to tell the teachers before they can help you. I bumped into an old teacher of mine 10 years after high school. We got talking and she surprised me by telling me that all the teachers had known I was being bullied and couldn't do anything until I had finally snapped and beaten up those two kids and it was all out in the open.

Good luck......and remember.....your in the right...what he's doing is wrong!

Answer 3

Next time make a retort that makes him look like he's harassing you because he's stuck on you and makes you sound like you have a great sense of humor.

Here are some examples:

1) "If you want to wrestle you'll have to get behind the other boys."

2) "I don't know what your problem is but I bet it's hard to pronounce."

3) "I see you're trying to make me "FALL" for you." (Use your fingers to make quotation marks in the air when you say the word "Fall".)

4) "I like you, you remind me of when I was young and stupid."

5) "Does your train of thought have a caboose?"

Be sure to smile and laugh a little when you do it.

Make sure you have plenty of funny comebacks you make up yourself written down and practiced and memorized ahead of time. Other's will copy what I have said in this article, and someone may recognize it. That would be embarrassing. While you are doing this part, no one but you will know you are almost ready to unleash your "secret weapon". Practice at home in a mirror for a while until you feel comfortable making the comebacks.

When you do it, if he laughs, he likes you and he's bullying you because he doesn't know what to do about it. This should open the door for a good joke, then start some conversation.

If he doesn't laugh, eventually he will stop drawing attention to himself in a way that always makes you look attractive and him look stupid or needy. If he makes a retort like, "I wouldn't want to have anything to do with you, you should be sure to be ready with something like: "Then why do you keep doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results?"

Good Luck! Here's to a good laugh : )

Calico.Kitty

Answer 4

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Answer 5

the best thing u can do to him is to slap him tight in he face so that he goes red and taht too in front of as many people as possible so that he thinks a 1000 time before coming after you .and i don't think he likes you in "that" way.u don't embarass ppl if u like 'em.
you can also try a good pick up line like

"why r u picking me?first learn to pick your nose"(believe me that worked for me)
and yes NEVER feel intimidated by him 'coz then u'll be done for

and try to get u'r frnds to be with u so that u'r not alone(no matter u'r a guy or gal)

and ALL THE BEST JUST GO AN' GET 'IM!!

Answer 6

If you are up to it, next time he bugs you, tell him to leave you alone. Just say "leave me alone". If you don't feel like doing that or it doesn't help, tell your parents and teachers about the situation. Don't worry about revenge or "good comebacks", that will only make the problem worse. Whatever you do, talk to someone about it and don't let it continue, you don't deserve to be bullied or picked on. Good luck.

Answer 7

If you are a female and he is doing this it's possible that he has a crush on you. Boy's usually pick on girls because they like them. If this is obviously not the case maybe try to embarras him in front of his friends and that should help. Try saying something whiity like you should stop being mean to me just because I won't be friends with you or tell him to grow up and stop trying to impess you or someone else. There are a lot of options you just need to find the one that works best for you and your situation...

Answer 8

If you can't take him on yourself, then you need to tell someone.
I used to stand up for myself against individuals double my height and strength. Just standing there with determination in your eyes and words, can awaken fear in someone who has very little self confidence and intelligence to begin with (otherwise he wouldn't be a bully). Try verbalizing to him with the right fierce tone of voice and facial expression that you are tired of his childish behavior. Look him directly in the eyes.... then make sure he looks away first.

Answer 9

It really depends on how he is picking on you like if he is threatening you than tell someone and get his butt out of your face, but if he's comming up behind you and tripping you there is a good chance that he likes you. Boys show their affection by teasing and picking on us gals. If you really wanna get back at him tell him "bite me".

Answer 10

A s you are seeing an evilish activity from your co student;

Pray to Lord apart from telling any one,
as He is a friend especialy children like you ,
you will find a difference,
to begin prayer , talking to Jesus you can do this small prayer before bed and mornings


you will see changes

May Lord Jesus be with you and pray as Jesus Himself taught to us;

Our father who art in Heaven, Hallowed be Thy Name,
Thy Kingdom come,
Thy will be done on earth as well as in Heaven,
Give us this day our daily bread,
Forgive our trespasses as we forgive those who tress pass against us,
Do not lead us in temptation but deliver us from evil;
for Thine is the kingdom for ever and ever; Amen;

Keep trust in Our Lord Jesus, He will lead us safely in Green pastures allways, if we Trust and obey Him with all our Heart and mind.