with her and she says sometimes she wants to be with me. What should i do?
2006-11-10 18:20:48 · 16 answers · asked by i.c.wiener 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Let the HO GO.
2006-11-10 18:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by KOkoweena 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wake up my friend. If she wanted to be with only you why is she doing the other guy. Please move on with your life. There's a thousand beautiful ladies out there waiting for the opportunity to make you happy. She wants to burn the candle at both ends and in the end you will get burnt. Love your son be a part of his life but leave his mother to her own devices she is still very immature.
2006-11-10 18:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you love her, then go for it. It doesn't matter if she's going out with someone. They're not married to each other yet anyway but if you just want to have some fun, forget it.
Don't waste your time, you will be happier, if you're with someone whom you really love. Just let her be happy in the arms of another and have some respect for the other guy. "Sometimes wants" doesn't necessarily mean she wants you for eternity.
2006-11-10 18:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by onlyme_6000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone who would want to be with you all the time and not sometimes, so forget her. If she truly wants you, she'll give up the other guy esp. knowing you both share a child. If you start something with her again without her wanting it a hundred percent, you'll end up with a broken heart. Good Luck!
2006-11-10 18:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by good girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as she is concerned, I would concentrate on being a "stand up father" in every sense possible. Being responsible in that sense will not only give your son what he truly deserve, it will go a long way in getting positive attention from his mom. Let that be your priority. Doing so will help you mature...and therefore put you in a position of quality...a trait most women desire from a man..
2006-11-10 18:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with her! Date again, love again, bond again...it will do great for both of you. And later seeing your son with both of you will make matters more happy and give a firm ground for your son to stand on. But now first concentrate on both your feelings...
2006-11-10 18:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key word being 'sometimes'. You are the boys father and had feelings for eachother once..For the moment, just be a good dad. thats the most important thing to her and your son..
2006-11-10 18:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by DIANA E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will you ever be able to trust her if she is going out with someone else but thinking of you?
Let her make the decision and first move. That way if something goes wrong in your relationship she cannot blame you.
2006-11-10 18:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it ...you have the baby's mama syndrome. You feel comfortable with her, well because"been there, done that." There is nothing going on there but jealousy of what you once had and didn't want, and what she has now, and you don't want again. Get over it.
2006-11-10 18:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ofie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF U ALSO LOVE HER AND REALLY CARE FOR HER,SIMPLY TALK TO HER GO FOR AN OUTING(OUT OF STATION) WITH HER AND GIVE HER TOO MUCH LOVE,FUN AND FROLIC .
BY THIS WAY SHE WILL REALIZE UR LOVE AND SHE WILL MAKE HERSELF CLEAR AND BOTH OF U WILL BE HAPPY .GO JUST DO IT AND LEAD A SUCCESSFUL LIFE .
BEST OF LUCK
2006-11-10 18:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by sam_indiakasuperstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her so much, talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel about her. If she loves you too, she'll dump the guy to be with you, so that depends if she's worth it or not. good luck anyway...
2006-11-10 18:24:36 · answer #11 · answered by Caity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋